Ways get your man more interested in sex?

Hi everyone I have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend and really want us start having more sex weve been together 4 years so I want get our spark back
What are good ways to get him interested without it being too obvious or making him feel pressured
What's good ways turn him on
I want start trying make it fun and spontaneous and I'm looking good ideas
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Superb Opinion

  • Subtle ways?

    1) go buy scents together. Ask him to smell and then feedback. (Tell the Vendor in private you want sensual ones, sexually arousing type)

    Get him a full essential oil set to burn in his home; and perfume for yourself to wear when you date.

    The correct scent will raise his sexual desire and he'll be calling for sex more often.

    2) cook food with added garlic, onions, and commonly know inexpensive aphrodisiac (Google for recipe).

    Of course you eat another with less aphrodisiac.

    3) put flowers and fruits (real or fake or pictures with sexual punchline) all over the house that looks like vagina.

    Eg. Orchids, half-cut of a pomegranate / strawberry / avocado. And of course, plenty of such pictures in Google images. Print then in full color and paste all over the house.

    To conclude sight, scent and taste are primitive senses where sexual desires could be aroused. Learn to find out what works for him. With some effort and creativity, he'll subtly be seduced and still not know why he's all over you.

Most Helpful Guy

  • One of the best things you can do that is often overlooked is to create the right opportunities. Maybe he's got his mind full of other things that distract him? If so, help him solve a problem - that'll bring you two closer together and will free his mind for the fun stuff.

    Other than that, talk about your fantasies. He might be reluctant to tell you so make sure he knows that anything goes. Then try to reenact them, if it's not possible to do in reality, use dirty talk instead.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Try wearing lingerie around the house or my Hubby's favorite outfit on me, just being nude.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • does he have some fantasy you can explore?

  • What do you try right now to make him want it? I think that’s a good start.

  • There is no way

  • Start my making sex fun

  • Start with hugging and kissing him more

  • try some poses in which he is in control of everything, make him watch porn (I know this sounds weird but do it), make more sound when you enjoy a specific thing, also talk more about your sex life in your daily conversation