The suggestions that you've been given so far are terrible, e. g. soy milk, liquorice etc. Those things definitely work, but they work because they lead to low testosterone levels, which is linked to all kinds of health issues both mental and physical. It also basically emasculates him. That's something not to be fucked with.
You shouldn't try to reduce his sex drive at all. Although most people don't realise this, sex is the glue that holds the relationship together. Of course other things matter, but sex matters a lot as you can see from his reaction.
At the moment he just needs to realise that this has to do with you being so tired from taking care of the baby. I have a very high sex drive, probably quite a bit higher than hers usually, but we have 3 kids including a baby, and I work long hours so that she can stay home. So we don't get to have sex anywhere near as often as we used to. It's kind of frustrating for both of us but it is what it is.
So I'd say just explain that to him, but also reassure him that you do still want to have sex with him. Another guy said that he's afraid the sex will eventually drop off, and that's probably true. If it drops off enough and he feels like he's pestering you to have sex with him, that you're "giving" it to him, that you have no real desire for him in return, that's what will fuck everything up. That's what will really bother him. Which is why it's important to just let him know that isn't the case.1 0 0 0Well I just looked at your picture and can really understand your husband. I mean maybe if you weren't so damn hot he'd lose interest but it is what it is.
Just trust me once you stop having sex on the regular you'll never start again and that's why he's hanging on to it.
While it's annoying you'll eventually miss it if tou stop just tell him you're busy when you are but do try to keep it going at least until you don't enjoy it anymore that is1 0 0 0Thanm you. This is precious
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Maybe he needs to take over some of the care of your child. There is nothing like changing diapers and cleaning up spit up and throw up to put things into perspective.
I was completely catatonic the first year. Maybe it was because I was an older mom but I was sleep deprived. I only worked on the weekends but my daughter ate every 1 1/2 to 2 hours waking hours and twice at night. I remember waking up and finding myself changing her diaper in my sleep. I'd wake up to feed her at 5 am do laundry since I was up and go back to bed. The whole first year was a haze.0 0 0 0Be more horny then him. That pretty much stopped my husbands sex drive and also lots and lots of drinking
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1 15Tell him to beat his meat.
1 0 0 0Try some herbal remedies to lower his anxiety and libido
1 0 0 0Like?
Just Google herbal remedies for high sex drive
Take yo weave off in front of yo MAN and he ain’t wanna get up in them walls anymore!!! 😂😂😂
0 0 0 0Chronic heavy drinking lowers it definitely trust me😂😂😂😄
1 1 0 0bite his dick, bet he won't ask something from you for a while ha
1 0 0 0No way!
yea i was playin lol, just keep saying later but never do it, its the easiest way, then when you have time y'all get it down 🙂
Cold medicine helps I was married to a partner who didn't want to have sex but once every couple weeks and being a Scorpio man I have a very high sex drive so to control it I would take cold medicine to curtail it some. But unfortunately we got devorced after 2 years just couldn't take. It anymore and zI refused to cheat so I had to devorce her and I hated having to do so but We are human and one of the reasons we get married is for sexual satisfaction. We were not made to be celibate doesn't work out so well for the catholic priest either obviously.
1 0 0 0Here is the thing. I'm sure you were just as busy before that. The child adds a different element to the equation, but the point is... you can make time for whatever you want. If you prioritized his needs then you would make time for it... I see it all the time with couples and marriages. Once the children come, the togetherness goes out the window. Yes, the child is important. But so is your relationship. And if he is helping with all of it from the jump and doing his part. Then there isn't really an excuse, as I'm sure he is also just as busy. It's all about what you prioritize. You choose not to make time for that, you won't.
1 0 0 0Soy milk and bread... and liquorice
1 0 0 0Or you could get a young boarder for a while
I apologize for being an asshole, however, you are firreal crazy sexy. I can't place blame on your husband.
0 0 0 0Maybe handjobs?
1 0 0 0gonna have to give him time to take care of himself if you can't be there to do it...
0 0 0 0It will tame down in time, but until then he will not be a happy dude.
Maybe offer more blowjobs to help stave off his desires?1 0 0 0İs your husband circumcised or uncircumcised
1 0 0 0circumcised. Why?
I am uncircumcised but my foreskin is very tight. What is your advice to me. How is circumcised penis
Then this is something new he'll have to get used to (act like an adult lol). And no reason he shouldn't be able to, especially if you are still having sex daily (a lot of people don't). He needs to respect your life also. He doesn't sound like he's doing that (selfish?). Can he not masturbate or something?
0 0 0 0Give a hard kick and knee in his balls... his testicles would be damaged and hence would lower his drive.
1 0 0 0I don't know why you would want to do that, I have zero sex drive and my girlfriend says this is driving her to a mental breakdown.
She was crying in the bathroom last night.1 0 0 0I'm sorry about thay maybe try visiting a doctor or something. I'm not saying that i hatw his high sex drive but i am not as free as before to do it all the time like before
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