We had sex for the first time but didn’t use a condom?

Me and the girl I’m dating finally had sex for the first time. But I’m not 100% sure i pulled out of her. I know when I was about to cum i pulled out and i believe I started too. Then I put it back in her and we kept going. Now it’s two days later and I’m not sure if I didn’t nut in her. Should I say something? I mean of course I should but I don’t want to scare her off thinking I’m trying to get her pregnant or something
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  • You absolutely need to tell her, because it’s her body and if she’s even at risk of pregnancy rn then you have to gut up and let her know. That’s kind of the non-asshole thing to do here, even if she leaves. I think the window for plan B is like 5 days after unprotected sex. You should double check that online. But if you still can do it, let her know your mistake, and offer to either buy fully or go half on the pill (if that’s something she wants to do and not trap you with a baby, but that’s another topic).

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  • I'd start making plans to help look after the kid if she's not on the pill.

Most Helpful Guys

  • dude you should have something on the moment. I hope she is not pregnant. you had between 48 to 72 hours to find the after day pill and and another 2 days to take care of her if she felt bad. you may be lucky geting pregnant do not happen that easy. but what the hell were you thinking. men wear condoms.

  • Consider the worst case scenario: you cum inside her.

    Hence buy a Plan B asap.

    Finally aasure her that if she becomes pregnant, you’ll marry her. Yes, marry. That's the responsible thing to do.

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  • Your old enough to know better. And your old enough to take responsibility. Shit happens. There is a morning after pill if she knows she is in that really dangerous week. But she has to know, so she can make the choice. You have already waited to long.

  • U put it in after how long after?

  • If you blew your load in her she'd know because it would have leaked out. However, guys usually pop a wee bit before the pipe bursts so you can get her pregnant even if you think that you withdrew in time.

  • How do you not know if you came in her or not? You were either inside her vagina when you shot your sperm or you weren’t. It’s not that mysterious.

  • I grew up in a poor neighborhood we never used condoms. maybe thats why i have 7 kids.