We had sex on first meeting, is it possible to make him date me?

We had sex on first meeting, it was very good and we did it few times.
Is this possible he will date me? Or after sex on first meeting he will never see me as something more? Should i contact him?
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Superb Opinion

  • You can't make him. It all depends on who he is and what he's looking for. Contact him if you like, see what happens. If he already saw you as someone he could potentially have something serious with before you had sex, I'm sure it wouldn't have changed anything.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Everyone is different, but it's never changed my thinking in a negative way. If anything, I want her MORE! I'm either open to one before we even meet or I'm not. It's all about communication though, let him know what you want. Best to find out now rather than later.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It is possible he wants to date you. It is possible he doesn’t.

    Send him a message, maybe you will know. Not sure however.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • If he was only after sex, he got what he wanted. You won't have to contact him because he'll come back if he thinks he can do it again.

    You lost all leverage with this guy. He has no reason to date you.

    If you don't believe me, should he come back, take away the sex and watch what happens.

    I'd chalk this up as a loss and move on.

  • Contact him again. Though I think it was a bad move to do it

  • Your chances are slim, because you gave It up so soon. But you could always ask, or, consider friends with benefits with this guy.

  • You were honest with him and showed him that you can be a fuck buddy in the best case. So keep it this way.

  • Contact him. He may date you

  • Probably not.

  • It's totally possible that he will date you. Especially if it was good sex. Personally if a woman has sex with me on the 1st date then I know that she is just as horny as I am and it's on baby let's have a relationship and fuck all the time

  • Unless he’s just after “conquests” I’d expect so. Most of us like relationships.

  • It’s hard to tell what his real intentions are. If I fuck a girl on the first date, I will certainly ask for another date so we can fuck some more.

  • If the sex was good, he should be back!

  • Some people just keep going until they get something sexual. If connection isn't developed by then, it's likely over. This is why I waited with my crush for 2.5 years by now.

  • He's either madly in love or you were a nightstand there's really no middle ground with that in my opinion

    • If i was a nightstand can he change mind and like me?

    • It is definitely a possibility but I would definitely not contact him

  • Go ahead and contact him and ask him

  • well if it was me i would stay if the girl liked me enough to have sex a few times on first meet

  • You can ask.

  • I seldom let sex decide whether or not date

  • Maybe? Personally I wouldn't date someone who puts out on the first date. But if it was good enough he might stick around for more.

  • No not likely. A girl who puts out easily shows her worth. It shows that she has done it before, we know we aren’t that special to be the only guy she has done that with.

  • For most guys, sex on the first date means that you are just easy pussy.