We had spontaneous anal sex and it was really messy. He didn't make a big deal of it at the the time but I'm embarrassed. Should I ask him about it?

[Anonymous]

Should I bring it up to him? Is he going to be scared off?

[TadCurious]

It the spontaneous anal sex was his idea, he should be more considerate that you --- as the receiver --- need some "prep time." In the future, if you two agree to have anal sex again, why not plan it for a special event? That way you can be ready and feel confident. As for this time you mention, that's what can happen. It's nobody's fault.

[TadCurious]

thank you for MHO !

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Nah, he'll be fine. Just don't bring it up.. it's not worth it.

[Heavenzent1]

If he hasn't brang it up is because it wasn't a big deal lol just forget about it you'll be fine lol

[linkywinky]

If he wants to talk about it, he'll bring it up. Just don't worry about it, leave it be.

[BertMacklinFBI]

messy? like you had to clean up afterwards?

[NovemberJoseph]

Don't ask.

[scrap422]

Messy as in poopy?

[scrap422]

Putting something up your butt can make you poop sometimes its all good