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We had spontaneous anal sex and it was really messy. He didn't make a big deal of it at the the time but I'm embarrassed. Should I ask him about it?

Should I bring it up to him? Is he going to be scared off?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It the spontaneous anal sex was his idea, he should be more considerate that you --- as the receiver --- need some "prep time." In the future, if you two agree to have anal sex again, why not plan it for a special event? That way you can be ready and feel confident. As for this time you mention, that's what can happen. It's nobody's fault.

    • thank you for MHO !

  • Nah, he'll be fine. Just don't bring it up.. it's not worth it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If he hasn't brang it up is because it wasn't a big deal lol just forget about it you'll be fine lol

  • If he wants to talk about it, he'll bring it up. Just don't worry about it, leave it be.

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  • messy? like you had to clean up afterwards?

  • Don't ask.

  • Messy as in poopy?

    • Putting something up your butt can make you poop sometimes its all good

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