Girls, We have all heard penis size doesn't matter. If a guy is really attractive and has a thick one, perfect length, and appealing you get hot?

[Anonymous]

Okay so in my opinion I have never understood when it has been said it doesn't matter. Some things are subjective when it comes to attraction. If a women is 5-8 perfect face, thick ass, big breast, skinny waist any guy would find her extremely attractive especially if she is well endowed when it comes to her breast. So how can penis size not matter? Also describe your favorite penis size that you have received. Size, shape, color, anything to describe it.

[ChronicThinker]

Y'all act like we just go out there and sample all of the penises in the whole world. Need a remind you that slamming your cock into a woman isn't the only way to make her cum? That's why it's valued less.

[Asker]

Okay that is very true but in the same sense a guy can say that about a women. That getting head is another way of finishing so her tightness, wetness, and texture doesn't matter. That is so far from the truth though. I always hear it doesn't matter so why is it that I am considered best by most when we men are basically the same? Logically thinking, we must be getting lied to.

[ChronicThinker]

It isn't that it "doesn't matter," it's that it isn't as big of a deal for us as men make it out to be. We don't sit there at our desks going through the exact measurement, curve, shape, ball-to-cock ratio and produce a fucking thesis on what the perfect cock is. We just like a guy and if his dick feels good, then it just does. Most of us have a "general-ish" idea of what might be ideal, but it isn't to the specks that you're holding onto. Most women just want a guy that's, at best, average or slightly above, if that, who is actually good at sex. It's not rocket science.

[Asker]

Ohhh gotcha, its basically the same in our perspective too. We want a girl thats physically attractive and if her vagina feels good and tighter than most then all the better. Thanks!!

[Lovethedove]

Most women do not orgasm from penetration so it’s irrelevant. But this is honestly ignored more often than not.

[Asker]

I have yet to encounter a women that has not orgasmed from penetration.

[Lovethedove]

It’s possible you haven’t however unlikely. Most women think they’re “weird” by not climaxing from penetration so will either tell the famous white lie or will confuse the good but not orgasmuc pleasure of being penetrated with an actual orgasm. No big deal either way. It’s just good to understand our bodies & our partners so we all achieve the most pleasure we can together

[Asker]

I could be getting lied to, that is very probable but I have asked so what does it feel like? The reason I asked is because I noticed some girls have to completely stop after orgasming and some can continue so I always ask. Some constants I have noticed is wet areas like a glass of water spilling and usually a hard white residue that once dried feels just like my ejaculation. That is my perspective but from the answers I've gotten its this," It feels like the dopamine in my head is shaking inside my head and sending electricity throughout my body." ," It feels like im going to pee, but its not pee then thats why I squirt." I have noticed as well that most times I do feel a physical release that scared me my first couple encounters because I assumed I came inside of them but knowing I didn't and seeing a BIG smile on their face afterwards. I didn't find out until later what had happened though on many occasions until women that I slept with later on in life when asking.

[Lovethedove]

I am NOT saying you can’t have encounters women who climax from penetration! Of course you can, I myself can orgasm from both. But we women can control the tightening of our insides orgasm or not. We can clench & release. Wetness is a sign of a arousal I could be teased for ages & get soaking before ever having an orgasm. Also that white stuff isn’t related to female climax that’s a discharge related to ovulation. My only point was it’s often not discussed when women can’t climax that way. So many fear they are wrong or will disappoint their passionate partner. So in come these descriptions of orgasms in place of actual ones. We as people I truly believe have a long way to go still in discovering our pleasures & communicating openly, honestly & without shame or worry.

[Asker]

Great answer

[ItsyBits]

@Asker If you have yet to encounter a woman who hasn't orgasmed from penetration, either you haven't met many women or you easily fall for the fake orgasm trick.

[Asker]

@ItsyBits I have slept with about 20 girls, most tell me they came multiple times during a session but you never know. I could be getting lied to.

[ItsyBits]

If they all told you they came from penetration alone, I GUARANTEE that you were lied to.

[Asker]

@ItsyBits Yup it was all penetration, I dont go down on girls. Maybe a couple lied, I usually never bring it up unless they stop or say they came A LOT. Usually something that is just said to me. Just like I dont think I have a very big dick but I am told I do even though 7 and 5 inches thick is considered normal. All that tells me is a lot of guys are lying about their real size and performance.

[ItsyBits]

I have a lot of female friends. We talk about this stuff. Very few orgasm from penetration alone... VERY few.

[Asker]

@ItsyBits Out of curiousity why would a girl lie about that? Seems kinda dumb, I dont always cum but am very honest and always tell the truth. So why would a girl lie? Also, can you give me a couple examples of how they would tell the lie to the guy?

[ItsyBits]

Lots of reasons to lie about having an orgasm. Some girls just like to build up their guy's ego, some feel embarrassed that they don't/can't orgasm, some just are ready to be finished having sex. It's not necessarily a reflection of a poor performance by a guy.

[Asker]

@ItsyBits Okay gotcha, Some are ready to be finished having sex? Wow that must be some horrible sex to downplay one of the most enjoyable things you can do on planet earth