We have been together for 3 months and I finally told him that I’m ready last night but I’m worried about my period how do I tell him?

Should I directly text him “I think I will get my period sometime this week can I go over to your house maybe next week” or should I maybe not give him all the details and just say “is it okay if I go to your house next week?” Last night I confessed to him that I’m ready to lose my virginity to him and he told me that he will buy condoms at the gas station this week but now I’m worried about when my period will start I’m hoping that by this Friday it won’t be there but I went on a website to track my period and I might get it earlier than Friday and mine lasts 7 days also my breasts have already been hurting since Thursday I think. I wish I thought about that before telling him that I’m ready but I’m a dumb ass
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Im thinking about just asking him if I could go to his house next week instead if I get my period
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Your period will always be something in your life... Well... Currently at least... I would just tell him what the problem is... If you just leave it open and not tell him y your pushing it back he may think your coming up with an excuse to bail out.

    And like I said... If your going to be with him this is probably going to come up again... It's better to get over that hump now

  • You're not a dumbass. You just got a little out over your skis. I'd ask him how he feels about period sex. I've found that women are their most responsive then. Just some old towels and a washing machine.

    • Im not Inter in period sex that’s gross to me i wouldn’t want my first time to be with period sex

    • Okay.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Just tell him your period is coming soon and it would be better to wait until next week.

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  • I mean I ha e a girlfriend an when she was ready she said that exact same thing I said cool you're probably reading into the situation too much

    • I just feel shy about telling him that I’m on my period

    • Hun there's nothing shy about it we know about periods An all well if someone cares for u they do lol

  • This is someone you love and who loves you back. Your periods are a normal and natural part of life and being upfront with him about why a certain time isn't right for making love for the first time isn't TMI. He knows you have periods and having your period shouldn't prevent you from going to see him even if the period means it's not the best time to make love. He'll understand.

  • "Should I directly text him “I think I will get my period sometime this week can I go over to your house maybe next week”.
    No. Tell him “I think I will get my period sometime this week I go over to your house this week or wait until next week”. Let him decide.

  • Just be totally honest with him. He’ll understand.

  • Tell him that he needs to protect you cause if you two have sex
    what are you going do if you get pregnant cause some first times
    that can happen, He needs to use very good condoms?

    • Already did

  • Yeah inform him. Make it seem like you didn't realize it was this week coming up and if he would rather wait afterwards or if he would like try anyways. See what he says.

  • be honest, without it, a relationship is a shamble

    • I am honest i just feel shy about telling him about my period

    • You're a big girl, you can do it, he should understand and accept it.

  • Being transparent with your menstrual cycle is something that your partner should be comfortable with 😎😜

  • Let him earn his Red Wings!

  • I can't answer this, because I Am A Guy, all I can honestly advise you to do, is to be honest and make your decisions together as a couple.

  • Be upfront with him. Honesty is the best policy for relationships

  • Just be honest

    • I feel shy about telling him about my period

    • Why are u sky

    • I don’t usually talk about my period