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No, ladies, we will not accept a term that demonizes us the way "slut" happened to you. Guys aren't going to call each other this. We're not going to repress our slutty behavior because some girls call us something that sounds like a prebubesent boy with a chain around his neck that's only brough out for sex. All that you have going for you is the element of surprise because it's new, but it's doesn't have lasting appeal. I've already been called this by over a dozen women and I'm not bothered.
Men are too confident to be phased by this silly attempt at evening the playing field, so stop using this word if you want to be taken seriously. We don't look for social cues for how to conduct ourselves. We just live. It wouldn't occur to a man to consider that his actions could disqualify him from the respect of several females, becuase he would never, in the first place, consider the respect of someone else over the respect he has for himself. If he feels there's nothing wrong with his promiscuous behavior, he could care less that some woman claims to abhor it. He understands this is the only paradigm that does not include emotional slavery and so f***boy is simply an attempt at convincing him that a girl's opinion of him is of higher value than self opinion, which he rejects and disregards.
We don't do it for the validation. We don't do it to feel warm inside. We don't do it to feel like one of the pack. We do it for the purpose of actually finding sex pretty darn awesome. If I've dedicated a large portion of my life to sex and have developed less "picky" tastes it's because we sex more like a hippie would...about spreading love into the vaginas of many, many women whether we develop strong attachments to them or not. We are impermanent. Nothing we do will matter in a hundred years. We are valueless to the cosmic universe and yet this is the ultimate freedom because we have no responsiblity. The universe is not counting on us to do anything. We live for our own intentions. We're men we work hard, we play hard, and we strive for success in all endeavors.
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What Girls & Guys Said
19 32Why do I bother to read it in the first place?
If we were talking irl, and a caled a guy a fuckboy, U would just laugh with me and agree that he was one, to be social and all that.
no. id tell you i think the term sounds retarded. honestly.
@Dragonblood21 I could just go on about why he's a bad guy, and then you'd agree with me.
Honestly, the word fuckboy would ruin any seriousness the conversation had if it was me. The word just sounds so stupid, and it is most popular among 16-year-old high school girls. I would take you much more seriously if you conversed with me in a more adult manner.
I'm still a virgin but if I ever got called a fuckboy I'd be like "oh, why thank you."
Must be getting old but every time I turn round someone makes up another term or name for something that means the exact same thing or decides the use of a word is now politically incorrect even when the word applies ie slut
i don´t understand it... why is "Player" not good enough anymore? why do we even need such a dumb sounding term?
thank you. it means exactly the same thing but is pejorative
yeah but "player" is pejorative too xD or did you ever hear a girl saying "i love players and how they use my feelings to fuck me and then drop me like it´s hot" :D
I think it's cause player is also used in a good way too like "heyyyyy player!" or "this guy is the best player" but fuckboy just doesn't have that same pleasant ring to it.
why don´t we focus on a new positive word for promisquous females instead of creating superfluous words that sound like you grew up in a trailer park.
Well done great take.
Fuckboy is a very recent term on GAG I think it was invented by some bitter woman.
glad when we can agree on something
I just noticed you have a lot of good content it's just most of the time the things I don't agree with are at the top of the queue for some reason.
yea i'm always surprised by the takes that people on here find interested it's never the ones i'm happiest with
I got called a 'fuckboy' a few times.
I wear the badge with pride. Yeah, I'm a fuckboy. I worked hard for my string on one night stands, you think I'm gonna let a word take that away?
Fuckboy or no fuckboy, I'm still the guy women turn to when their boyfriends can't perform or the lack of sex is just too much. I have a purpose.
best opinion so far!
this term isn't known here so i don't use it
good woman
Speak for yourself. I tear down little fuckboys all the time.
Describe them...
I thought a fuckboy was a guy who manipulates a girl into sex with lies and false feelings? Although I'd say it's tasteless and wrong to do so (in my opinion) If I'm called a fuckboy I wouldn't actually care, I'd take as a compliment/achievement lol, if a girl would try to disrespect me like that, then fine I'll take it with pleasure haha
Fuckboy is for that exactly boys.
A woman would never call me a fuck boy. She would simply just indulge in the wildy passionate ride she'll join be embarking on with me.
You're hanging around an immature crowd if fuckboy is being thrown around.
I don't use the term. That shit is originally slang from Atlanta Georgia. They also came out with the term "Trap" too. I remember a time when only people from Atlanta said that now everyone wants to be from there.
i like atlanta. every black girl from there is a stripper haha
I see nothing wrong with being upfront about wanting sex only and if she catches feelings, that's his fault for laying good pipe!!! HAHA!!!
I love fuckboys
lol really?
Yups
ladies we don't care
amen
Damn right, girls through this word around so much now and my response is just "... so?" I mean, come on, you can think of something betetr than that surley XD
yes!
Men and women aren't as different as you are making them out to be.
there is no chance i'll be called that.
Why I'm not bothered by being called "whòre, ho, slut"
Because idgaf. I will call guys whatever I want. "Fuckboi" isn't in my vocabulary. Whòre is though since men have a habit of calling women that does the SAME thing they do. Sexist at its best
Actually its a term mostly used by other women to insult one another usually by promiscuous women. I have only ever heard a man use it to describe an actual prostitute. Men don't care what you call them, they only care about if your down for some fucking or not. Or if your going to make them a sandwich.
@Righttobeararms83 lmao please. I heard guys all over the Internet on here spreading their sexist bullshit. Because I a woman likes sex, guess what? Call her a Whore so she can feel bad about liking it. Also idgaf what men care about. When I call men in real life whores, they surely get upset 😂😂😂😉
The internet is not real life so most are saying it to be controversial or get a rise out someone. To be honest if you called a heterosexual man a whore he'd take it as a compliment.
@Righttobeararms83 Lmao please. It isn't just the Internet, that was an example. Also being called a hòe is not a compliment. Guys that are hóes where I live don't 'take it as a compliment'
You're not bothered by it, but you made a take telling women to stop using it? lol Okay.
I'll continue to use the term fuckboy. I use it to indicate a specific type of guy. I have no interest in that type of guy, and I'd really prefer it if my friends stayed away from him as well. I'm not really concerned with whether or not men call each other fuck boys. Thats beside the point, really.
I'm not really sure why fuckboy would sound any more "immature" than any of the pejorative terms for women. This seems like an emotional response/preference issue, not really an immaturity issue.
Happy to see you enjoying your male privilege though. Good for you, honey. I know that is the highest sense of accomplishment many fuckboys will experience in the first place. Get it where you can, I suppose. Good little fuckboy.
why are you up in your friends business like that? Seems controlling. I say stop using it because it's not doing anything but making you look bad...
He just a man being who he is. Nothing wrong with a young man seeking consensual sex with an adult woman.
lol I'm not controlling them. I just want them to understand the type of guy they're dealing with and think clearly about what they're doing. Not everyone does... When you're concerned about your friends or family, you generally talk to them and take an interest in encouraging them to move in the direction that best serves them. Now, if you just don't care, thats another story, and thats not me. If she's down with whatever he's selling, and she isn't functioning on some concerning self-esteem issues or questionable motives involving validation, then by all means, do whatever you guys want to do. She can do whatever she wants either way, but as a caring friend, I can't just sit by and say nothing when I see a huge red flag.