We were naked and we didn't have sex?

So... I went over to well I don't even know what to call him.. we are both in complicated relationships which we are both taking breaks from our significant others. So technically we are both single. ANYWAYS, I went to his house... this guy... I am in love with him. He is in love with me too. I love being around him... it makes me feel alive. We were cuddling, then our clothes came off things got frisky. But he didn't wanna have sex. he wanted to save it for another time. instead we cuddled and he kept kissing me, telling me how much he loves me and how beautiful I am. He wasn't hard or turned on while telling me these things. But why did we cuddle naked? does that mean something gagers?
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He did get hard but after he said he didn't wanna have sex he didn't get hard anymore.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • To be honest, He's probably got something serious with this other girl. He could be in love with her and confused about what he actually wants. When I say "in love", I mean infatuated. He also may be worried about what she's doing if she was the one who called the "break". Maybe he does like you but he's just confused. If you like him more than your other, then you should definitely talk about your feelings. Most guys find it hard to bring this stuff up with girls because of what the reaction will be.

  • It would seem impossible for a straight guy in your age range to cuddle naked with a girl and not get an erection. I can understand wanting to save it for another time, but the natural response to seeing a naked female that you desire is to get turned on. And touching? It goes hard. So something is not right there.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Seems like he's a romantic at heart & didn't want to rush things. Take your time & don't over analyze the situation. I know it's hard to believe, but sex isn't always the only thing guys want from us :)

  • that's strange, you were feeling his penis and nothing happened? well, I would have grabbed it at least but then if he wants to save it then he wants to save it. drama goes on.

  • So many responses to this are going. through my mind

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  • Sounds like something I would do but with my clothes on lol (I dont like being naked) strangely I never want intercourse (yea I'm still a virgin) but to be cuddled, held on to as I sleep or talk about things that are on my mind.

  • huh... that's weird... what can i say?

    when both naked, sex comes... automatically : O

  • He did not get hard even if you were naked? hahahahaha he is gay... for sure

    • he did in the beginning but after he said he didn't wanna have sex then he didn't get hard anymore. he wanted to save it for the following day. lol

    • Ohkkk

    • But you Both gonna break up with your significant others? cause you both are already cheating on them! You both have taken breaks but its not right that you two are doing this stuff...

  • Dude gay 100%

  • He is a GaY!