Wedding night advice?

I’m getting married in 3 days. I’m 23 m and I’m nervous to lose my virginity and how to please my wife. What should I do to help her? What can I expect?
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  • Read into female anatomy for sex, that's what I did as a teen before I lost my virginity.

    Women have a lot of erogenous zones, but you can start simple by kissing her lips, then her neck, and her breasts. You can try kissing her belly and ber belly button, but some women don't like that so avoid it. Don't go trying to give her a hickey, and don't touch her nipples right away, kiss around them and grab around them before gently kissing the areolas/nipples. You can experiment by licking or sucking on her nipples, but always build up and don't slobber or suck really hard.

    Otherwise touch her legs gently and don't just grope her between the legs. She might not like her clitoris touched directly so treat it like a delicate newborn kitten.

    Spend a lot of time in foreplay, you're husband and wife and if it's your first time then enjoy each other's company. Tell her that you love her, and tell her you think she's beautiful. Always start gentle and ask her for feedback. These emotional things will help your relationship as sex partners grow to be honest and caring.

    My last bit of advice: don't overthink penetration. You're not going to be sure if it's in the first few times, that's normal. If it's her first time then consider letting her sit on top so she can control the discomfort it may cause, and NEVER force it.

    Take it slow, communicate, be gentle, and have fun. If it wasn't amazing then don't feel bad, the first time sucks for everyone even if you have a fantastic time. Anyway you got a whole lot of good stuff from me and other guys in this thread. Read up, and don't sweat it.

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  • If she's also a virgin then do cowgirl, otherwise do missionary. Make sure you have a good amount of foreplay. It feels better for both of yuh othe wetter she is. If she's a virgin it probably will hurt when you go inside, but shouldn't hurt the whole time. It probably will hurt when you go inside the first few times, but will generally hurt less. Eventually it won't hurt her at all. My sister said the first 5 times hurt, but less and less each time. Of course it never hurt my girlfriend, so that's not a rule.

    • I can't stress enough the benefits of virgin cowgirl, it makes things so much easier for the woman.

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  • She may have the same feelings. Don't worry :)

    Others had tackled it before, and so will you two as well.

    Just don't copy what you may have seen in porn, heh heh.

    As a suggestion: Don't rush and be open for her response and reactions. Then one thing will lead to the next; more or less by itself.

  • You don't know what to expect? Really?

  • Is she a virgin too? Just enjoy each other and don't put so much pressure on yourselves.