Well all need to confess sometime, right?

so during the past few months of lockdown life has been very interesting, lots of downtime, while working from home. During this time my viewing of porn online has increased dramatically , almost to the point of addiction. Masturbation has increased as well, but not to the same degree. I can't go more than a few hours with out needing to click on to some site to watch, be it live cams or, regular site with gay/ lesbian, Trans, or boy/girl, I just need the visual. At home I've even taken to going to the bathroom and locking the door, ( which I never do, as I don't care if my husband walks in while I use the toilet) but now I lock the door so I can watch porn for 5-10 minutes. While it hasn't taken a toll on my work or marriage, I am worried that I eventually will get so engrossed in watching I will lose my job or my husband will get angry. We have watched porn together in the past but if he knew I watch hours a day, ... Well you get the point. Has anyone been in a similar situation what did you do?
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  • I totally get this, and it's why I can't wait to be allowed back into my workplace - some days I have no self-control or focus on anything remotely resembling work, and can barely make it more than a few hours without checking in on various sites, and, like you, masturbation is way up during the day.
    My biggest concern/fear is that at some point I won't have anything left for my girlfriend at the end of the day - unlike me, she's still working at work. So far so good though, probably because she is so insanely sexy, lol ! Something I've done that you might try with your husband - force yourself to hold off on masturbation during the day. It's really hard to do - but holy crap you get so charged up with sexual tension, by the time the workday is over and your significant other is ready for sex, well, it's like letting a tiger out of the cage :-)

  • Usually the desire comes and goes, not to worry :)

    WHY PORN MIGHT ACTUALLY BE GOOD FOR YOU!

    Well all need to confess sometime, right?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Definitely and try to involve your husband with your fantasies and your porn watching. He may be really excited to join in with you and you would never know unless you asked.
    He may be even willing to entertain some of the other fantasies that you're harboring.

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  • Try talking your husband into spicing up your sex life. Surely he'll be up for it and it will reduce your masturbation.

  • No. I don’t watch porn.

  • I have lost my feeling. I kinda don't feel anything from few days. Like really nothing not even horny

  • Hmm I've been close to the similar situation these past weeks but I think the best way to break the cycle is to focus on work, a hobby, exercise, meditate, and try to keep active. Keep busy.

  • Wow that is just crazy. You might need to get out again.

  • You need to talk to a psychologist to havd them help you

  • I'm dealing with the same thing. To the point where I'm getting headaches when I don't jerk off. I have to jerkoff twice a day to not get a headache. My sessions last 2 to 3 hours. I'm writing this to let you know you're not alone and I am looking for feedback as well.

  • U like sex online?

  • The urges will come like waves. Up and down overtime. You'll slowly become desensitised and look for more hardcore things. It's an addiction but talking to your husband and letting him know you do it alone will stop and distrust between you. It's important to have solo time even in a relationship. So long as you let him know you enjoy it sometimes then it should be good between you. I've gone through similar stuff as well, reach out of you want to chat more.