Well, I found Asian porn on my boyfriend's computer again, now what?

I asked about this before on gag. We're both white and he said he would stop being so obsessed with Asian women. I found this porn video on his computer this morning.
I'm so freaking mad!!
What am I supposed to do now?
Well, I found Asian porn on my boyfriends computer again, now what?
Well, I found Asian porn on my boyfriends computer again, now what?
Just leave him already and maybe he'll change if he wants me back.
Vote A
Scratch "No Asian women" into the side of his new truck.
Vote B
Just watch his stupid porn with him.
Vote C
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Okay, don't give me a hard time, but we just made up. We had talk and it turns out that he does love me. He said that he sees us getting married and having kids one day. He said he's going to take me ring shopping. 💕💍 I got so excited that I put on a porn of a Latina woman and an Asian woman fucking a BWC for him. I sucked him off while he watched it. I literally so happy right now, I don't even care about the porn anymore. Thanks for your suggestions.
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  • It's just porn, I really dont think it means anything, I doubt he thinks of you as a second choice or last resort, he is still with you after all.
    A lot of the fun of porn is the variety and fantasy.
    It makes sense to watch people that look different to me, why would I look up a "clone" of my girlfriend?

    How did you even find it? You aren't actually searching through his computer are you?, that would be a big invasion of privacy.

    Also you reject his request to get rid of your black sex toys, justifying it as he has no reason to be jeolous, you are ignoring his feelings cause in your mind his concern is silly, so when you tell him his feelings dont matter cause they are dumb why would he feel compelled to listen to your issue with Asian porn that I'm sure seems dumb to him.
    If you want him to give up what you dont like you should be willing to give up what he dosent like, cause that's compromise, if you won't give at all why should he?

    • I use his computer while he's at work. I just check his search history and sure enough he was searching Asian porn again. I don't know why he would care if I watch porn of black guys or have a few black toys. My boyfriend is better looking than those guys and he has a big dick too. I can't compete with those Asian women that he likes, I can't look like them.

    • Ok so you say he looks better than the black guys so there's no need for him too worry. How do you know he isn't insecure about black guys the same way you are insecure about Asians? Tou clearly like black guys just a little bit, and that's ok, nothing wrong with that. Your insecure that he finds Asian women attractive, but just like how you have a small attraction to black men but find him more attractive, how do you know he isn't the same? How do you know he dosent think you are better looking than them? I'm sure he finds you sexy and I'm sure he loves you for the inportant reasons other than looks too.

    • Glad to hear you 2 made up, got past this and back to being happy

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  • Fuck you and Fuck your boyfriend. I am tired of getting questions about who your freakin boyfriend is jerking off to. Was Asians, Now is Latinas! Get a life!

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  • This sounds racist to me! Fetishizing any race is wrong! Oh, and you are SO mad, you decided to post SCREENSHOTS? I’m not buying this! Weren’t you the one who asked about your boyfriend switching from Asian to Latina women?

  • Why does it matter to you so much? What's the problem? The fact that they're Asian, or the fact that it's porn?
    I know my boyfriend watches porn too, it doesn't really bother me...

    • The fact that they're Asian, I just feel bad about myself. I can't help it.

    • He definitely isn't going to change, I'm assuming. I can see how this might upset you, I feel similarly when my boyfriend looks at instagram models sometimes. But he's with you for a reason, I'm sure he loves and cares about you, regardless of his interest in Asian porn. If he wanted to be dating an Asian woman, he probably would be, have some confidence! If you don't want to see it or know about it, just ask him to be a little more discreet.

    • We've definitely talked about and argued about it, he wants me to throw away my black sex toys. I won't do it because I don't think it's the same as Asian porn. My boyfriend has a big white cock so I don't even think he should be jealous.

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  • It's simple, if you asked him to stop doing something because you're uncomfortable with it. And he continued to do it regardless trying to be sneaky, it means that he's not going to stop.

    So either you can get over it and let him have his fetish, or and my preference is this, break up with them. He knows it makes you uncomfortable and he refuses to stop and he sneaks around to get it done anyway. So he's not willing to compromise in the relationship, it's Asian porn now it might be something big later. It's a bad sign

  • Unless his porn is interfering with YOUR relationship, what does it matter what kind of porn he watches?

  • Well my wife would be shocked! lol She's Asian and most of my porn is white women, with some Asian women here and there.(I just hate the ai ai sounds) I mean, wouldn't the case be that if he wanted a white woman... there you are?

    To me porn is just a distraction, like focus on it so I'm not thinking about the laundry, brake tag, whether the water pump is making a funny noise, so on and so forth while I beat one out to just relax a little.

    If women had a more difficult time getting off after masturbating rather than an easier time they'd be getting the judgey mc judge judge treatment instead. At least he isn't looking at the damned heaps of incest porn that seems to be more popular than coca-cola on every site with porn these days. What the hell is the obsession with incest?

  • Why do you need to post pictures for this question? Do you think that some users don't know what porn is?

    I suspect that you are quite happy with this situation, despite the protest I'm sure you will make in your reply. He has been doing this, you've discussed it with him, for some reason this makes a weird bug crawl up your butt (you wouldn't be bothered if it was Caucasian porn.) He's not going to change. You have two mature options: accept it or leave him. You have a third option which is not recommended and not very mature, and that is the option you have chosen: just complain to everyone else about it and hope for some sympathy.

  • It the porn or the ethnicity?

    a white or black girl getting fucked would be okay?

    but an Asian girl no matter what she was doing, is wrong?

    • I'm jealous of Asian chicks okay, I don't know what else to do.

    • The problem is more yours than his, Sit down and discuss with him, no just porn but also his potential interaction. For me, I don’t really mind what ethnicity someone is,

  • Wow is this a troll post?

    • Nope, my life is just weird.

    • Funny you didn't mention that you watch interracial porn too and have black sex toys. Of course you didn't... what a fucking joke.

    • Well, my boyfriend took my black sex toys out to his shop and cut them up. All I have now is my Rabbit vibrator.

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  • LOL, she fell for the oldest trick in the book. This relationship is egoic and toxic and you are talking marriage? smh.

    • this

  • It's probably just a fetish and you should watch it with him to understand it more instead of getting upset... he doesn't seem like he's going to stop.

  • Why are you angry at him over porn? Do you think he loves the women he watches or something?

  • pleased it all worked out in the end

  • Option A, seems like an option a lot will go for. Option B, what long term benefits do you gain out of damaging ones property. Option C, seems very counter productive and awkward.

    Why do you feel upset by his actions?

    • I hate that he wants Asian women so bad. I'm white, I'm tall and curvy and he used to just want me. I can't compete with his desire for cute, exotic women.

    • Things change, people change. Perhaps he was once into you and now has an interest for Asian girls, and that's okay. You don't need to "compete" for him to want you (mainly because it's unproductive and a waste of time). You're you and he's him, and that's A-Okay

    • I didn't want him to change.

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  • This is your own insecurities as you stated the issue is the race not porn itself if u are not comftble with dating a guy that is also attracted to Asians then leave him

    • Then again from your comments it would seem u have a bit off brain damage so I dont see this issue getting fixed

    • Cos your a women complaining about your man online so guys smell there chance lol

    • I won't cheat though. I already have the man of my dreams, but he's obsessed with Asians.

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  • You should leave him for being so dumb that he downloads porn in 2021 and after getting caught does the same mistake again. Like why not just watch with browser in incognito mode like every normal human.

    • I think he just really doesn't care. He told me to throw away my black sex toys if I want him to quit watching Asian porn. I didn't because I don't think it's the same thing. Now I think he purposely does this.

    • Well that explains it and changes the story completely, you should have mentioned it. He obviously does it to prove a point. Your black dick fantasy makes him jealous the same way his Asian pussy fantasy makes you jealous. So I don't see why only he needs to stop, but you can continue.

  • Get over it or break up.

    • I just have trouble accepting it, I don't want to be his second choice. I don't really want to dump him either because I love him. I'm just in a no win situation and I feel like pulling my hair out.

    • You’re mad because he’s looking at Asian chicks online. It’s porn, not an Ashley Madison account. If you can’t get over porn, then leave him. Otherwise get some thicker skin and get over it.

  • Feel blessed you dont have actual issues

  • Get the fuck over it like an adult. It's just fucking porn

  • If you want to watch the porn with him and take care of him with a blowjob or handjob but remember this will be a repeated effect in the relationship and ask yourself how long would you go on with this, don't you think you deserve more then what he's giving you how is your sex life with him alone without porn? Please don't mind me sorry if I offend you any?

  • Sexual arousal and relationship are two. Different things.. he is in relationship with you.. So stop worrying.

  • If he doesn't respect you in this then he probably won't respect you in other areas.
    He could get counseling... but sounds like an ultimatum is coming.

    • Enjoy...

  • I am really happy that you moved past it.

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