Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My 14yo little cousin told me he is sexually active, not that i can say anything negative, i lost my virginity at his age.
He told me about "the pullout method", thinking it's some new idea, & i squashed that, telling him it's a rubber or nothing. He retorted with "She can't get pregnant if i pull out", i replied "Yeah, have you masturbated? (nod) You know the small beads that come out while you're doing it? (another nod) There's semen in that, so use a damned condom."
I asked what would he do IF he got his girl pregnant, he said he would step up. I asked what if his lady wanted to give it up for adoption, he said "dont i have first rights as the dad?" i replied, "Yes, but there's more to having a kid than you think. Say goodbye to the "me" mentality, say goodbye to being a kid yourself & now everything is about your kid while you're still a kid." I then asked, what if she wants to have an abortion, he replied "She wouldn't do that," i replied, "yeah, & pedophiles dont work as priests, doctors or teachers. You dont know what she would do when faced with the actuality of being pregnant."
What advice would you give a newly sexually active teen?
What advice do you give a sexually active teenager?
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3 28I wouldn't give him any advice. I would simply buy him some condoms and use one of them to show him how to use it.
I didn't lose my virginity until i was 20, and even that was a mistake
why parents aren't around at yours and his age, i dk
WHERE THE FUCK ARE THEY
Why do you feel it was a mistake at 20?
the way i did it and with who
My guess is you've done pretty well with dating since then
nope, i actually haven't
Oh, how long have you been single now?
A while
I assume years, how long was your longest relationship? Or are you not comfortable discussing this?
not really
I feel you man
In wich medieval country do guys have the first right about the child?
He could just get bjs, no babies there
you can advice only, they won't follow, teach him more ways of pleasure than risking that. condom is there but i dont think he would enjoy that.
I envy sexually active teens or people who lost the V-card in their teens, I graduated high school a Virgin, wasn't until my mid-20s.
The chances of getting pregnant from precum alone are very low I think, I know a guy who pulled out for 2 years straight. The trick is self control, often you can let the first spurt in there and that’s dangerous