What advice would you give to someone that’s Bi curious?

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Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Not an easy question to answer, reading some of the answers you got from other women, I would follow what they suggest.

Before COVID, I was in a 3 some in Fullerton with a married couple, where the husband was bi, and the wife made sure I was aware of it before. As we all three got naked and in bed, the husband had his very hard, erect (small) penis in my face on occasions, but it did not bother, or effect me in any way, and I'm sure he was aware as I ate his wife's pussy in front of him. I never had any thought about feeling or sucking his penis, and he understood that. He did fondle my penis once, and I did not respond, and took his hand off.

I would try a 3 some with a bi woman, and see how you feel. You don't have to do anything to or with her but see how you feel being with a naked woman and man together, and go from there.

SnowedIn · Accepted Answer

Don't close doors on opportunity. Curious isn't bad.  Trying something doesn't mean you do or don't have to do or that you are or are not that thing.  Your sexuality doesn't define you and vice versa. You can change and change back.

Alli39 · Accepted Answer

I'm straight so I'm not super famialri with the experience but I'd say take your time, be accepting of yourself, and don't try to convince yourself that you have to feel a certain way about various people/actions in order to eventually fit into a label of bi/straight. Bi, is seems to me, has always been the most "spectrum"-y of sexual orientations. Just remember that it's fine if you end up with a stronger preference one sex/gender or another, you don't have to land right in the center. And finally, if you end up determining that "bi" isn't right for you, never feel like you have to be ashamed of this experience or they way you're currently feeling. Stay safe, be smart, and enjoy yourself.

bannacookies · Accepted Answer

Experiment, try it! (In a safe way with someone who you trust.)

RobT312 · Answer

Trying something never hurts. I say go for it, it would put closure to your curiosity. If you like it it will open doors to new things sexually, if you don’t then you know you tried.

lightbulb27 · Answer

talk to a therapist, counselor or women whom are straight.

people are mainly bi curious because that topic is being tossed around in society. Without moral barriers, humans try all sorts of ideas and some can lead you astray.

our society became all about "pleasure of self". It's corruption.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Go for it. Because if you don't you might be cutting out experiences and people you might enjoy.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Find someone of the same gender who is already exploring their bi side to talk to about your feelings. A close friend would be perfect.

Agape93 · Answer

Find someone you trust to experiment with.

Yannishka · Answer

Explore so you know for sure.

sheikalana · Answer

Just figure out if you're really bi or gay or straight.

Wonderingguyy · Answer

To explore the gender they are curious about and see how they feel

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Find a partner to experiment with.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Do what feels natural to you. Don't overthink it.

gothbxtch · Answer

don’t be too quick to label yourself, and only do that when you feel comfy

AmeerX · Answer

Best kept a curiosity

kellytheman · Answer

Try experimenting with both sex and see what you like more or have a threesome with both sex. There is nothing wrong being bisexual I think if you like both sex more power to you. I do think that people think it is normal for women to be bi-curious and experiment with the same sex though than men.

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

Go for it.

Laurenitis · Answer

Go for it!

peterrezeeek · Answer

rethinking about physical human.. he is a male or female.. be straight

B4851 · Answer

Talk to someone close enough who you can really trust. It's certainly a little difficult, but it's better than a bunch of random people giving advice from here.