What am I supposed to do after a miscarriage now?

Question

I am healing emotionally and physically since last week but I still feel hurt no matter how hard I try to pretend.

Zealashton · Accepted Answer

hmm. mentally just think of the unborn child and babys as meat sacks, and try try agin, .

sure it sucks, but,

i am 30 male, and i have help with 10 litters of puppys, and out of every sigal one a puppy would die, it sucks but theirs nothing much you can do about it, i also had 5 dogs die pets,

my opion is that, dont think of the thig even after its born a actuall human being. its a meat suit nothing more, theirs nothing lost but time,

ik what i am saying seems to be cold, but its honest truth, now, should you genitally mutilate a boys dick hell fucking no, aka male cercumsion aka male gential mutilation is evil,

logically, its not like you lost a 12 year old , or a 20 year old men that commited suicied beacuse he was gentially mutilated, or how about a boy that was tricked into being a boy, and killed them selves, do to MGM. his dick was butched.

9 moths is not long, 12 20 years, 30 years and seeing someone kill them selves, especailly beacuse they where genitally mutlatied aka forskin gone, is extramly brutal,

and these mothers, are in bigger pain ever, all that time all that investment, gone, especailly if they have no grand kids,

so 9 months comapired to the others,

i say bee happy. keep trying, and keep movieing forwords, try hard and get meny kids, dont mgm or fgm and protect them, you have lots of time, sure it suck but keep moveing forwords

here's my story,
im male
30
virgan
never had a girlfriend

born mutilated MGM placed on riddlen, negected abadnond, and law keeping me with a whore that gave birth to me, i was bullied, and beaten, reddin made me a sociopath i finally recovered and now have emotional reactions, probly do to my chronic PTSD help with my sociopathicness. from reddin

i hit highschool, and i knew i was screwed,

my sister attended my high school and i was ashamed, sad and depressed,

when i discovered what MGM was i was crying hate, anger, rage, i told my real mom not the whore that gave birth too me, what happend too me, i showed her a video, . my dad yells at me the fucking basterd that abadon me, and subjected me to MGM. i moved out that night, i was 21. 25 got my ged. 29 got my m2 , 30 no job ever, can't find a job, 5 years now,

sooo.

i say chear up. if i can keep movie forwords with my my pain and suffering, so can you, easly, you have a husband that loves you, you only spent 9 moths,

also do not work at all, pirod quit your job, and be lazy, dont do big task, and just gather for the start of the nesting pirod that starts 4th moth in, instincts will guid you. trust them not doctors

if i can keep moveing forwords, so can you

Inexpensivefurniture · Accepted Answer

I'm so sorry you went through that. I can't speak to the physical or emotional pain of losing a pregnancy, but I think in order to heal from anything it's important not to force your emotions down. They'll jusy come back up later. I think you have to let yourself feel whatever you feel, write it out, talk it out, scream it out, whatever you need. I also think you need a support system. Family, friends, etc. People you can talk to and lean on while you heal

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

People like to pretend miscarriages are not a huge loss to someone and it can just be swept under the rug and that you can just "try again". Some people like creating a burial spot for their baby (people act like its morbid to have a grave for an unborn child but I disagree with that) but yeah mourn and go through the motions and maybe a grave or memorial of some sort would help you, maybe not.

JaneDoe377 · Accepted Answer

Time is the only thing that eventually lessens such pain. That's a shit answer, i know. I've experienced a lot od trauma, not a miscarriage, but truly, with time it will get better. try not to think past the day you are living in.

AustinMan · Answer

I'm sorry for your pain. Give it time. You'll adjust.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Are you still in a relationship with the father?

Berethor · Answer

Miscarriage is not an abortion, and you don't need to blame yourself for that.

JoyGirl · Answer

Just

bowenw · Answer

Speak with your doctor. Try to find a support group.

pigoat · Answer

A week is like yesterday You gotta give it more time and get into psychology therapy if possible

chriscdi · Answer

accept it, acceptance is what triggers the healing process

Wise4myage · Answer

Give yourself as much time as you feel you need to get past this.

joeldalton · Answer

It’s only been a week. There is going to be a long mourning period. Have you thought about talking to a therapist?

roastbeef · Answer

I hate to be you and your partner at this time. My thoughts and prayers are there for you. Yes time will heal and eventually you may get pregnant again.

TallAnon · Answer

Honestly, it's best to go to a doctor and ask them for advice, I'm not entirely sure, but there might be things they have to do to make sure it doesn't happen again.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

I have no clue. You feel like you may or may not feel. What about the guy?

Valnac · Answer

Sure you do, that’s very traumatic! You might want to talk to a counselor! They can help

B2281 · Answer

I'm so sorry for you. I can't imagine what you are going through. It's not something that you can put a timer on when you can feel better, but I've known a few different people who have had miscarriages and are doing well, but it doesn't go completely away. Just understand that it's not the end.