What are everyone’s thoughts on waiting to have sex after marriage? 👍🏼 Or 👎🏼?

What are everyoneโ€™s thoughts on waiting to have sex after marriage? ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ Or ๐Ÿ‘Ž๐Ÿผ?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Married sex is the most satisfying sex, especially for the woman.
    Waiting until marriage limits the bonds that form and are broken by premarital sex.
    The divorce rate of those who wait is about 1/5 of those who have sex before marriage.
    https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability

  • I wish I would have waited
    I was way too immature and young when I lost my virginity

    I think its healthy for people to know each other, fall in love, and prove themselves before having sex

    • Hope my opinion helped

    • @_SOARER it was great! Thanks 😊

Most Helpful Girls

  • Obviously my feelings certainly weren't to wait for marriage and although it's an individuals choice I believe the vast majority choose sex before marriage.

    • Just because majority chooses something, doesn't mean it is righteous. Those who value sex prior to marriage means they want Satan as their sexual partner.

    • @Cryptic-Game Then bring him on! Maybe he has a nice big fat dick and will fuck the shit out of us girls which obviously a dumb ass such as yourself can't!

    • I'm not dumb.

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  • Not my thing and i couldnt imagine myself dating someone who wanna wait until marriage. But hey, you do you.

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  • I think it's fine. It's not what I chose for myself but I respect other people doing it.

  • I've always compared to holding off on sex until after marriage to signing a contract before reading the fine print.

    • How about, sex before marriage is like moving in before signing the lease.

  • You do you but no thanks

  • Well I still have that option but I dont think that's what I want, I'm under the impression that lots of partners before marriage let's you have your fun before settling down, and you got to try it all just incase who you marry is boring in bed and isn't adventurous.

  • That's its retarded and unnecessary.

    • People who wants sex prior to marriage means they want Satan as their sexual partner.

    • I gotta disagree with both of u lmfao itโ€™s people choices over their body, not yours. None of us have the right to decide what another person should or should not do with their body.

    • @gaygod_19 I'm gonna side with you, ... I agree 100% -- @cryptic-game is a little 'extreme' in his opinions as I'm sure you can tell.

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  • I think that's a personal decision

    • You donโ€™t have to comment then

  • thats a rare thing here in the uk and i never could see the point anyway. you just risk finding out you aren't sexually compatable after you already tied the knot

    • People who wants sex prior to marriage means they want Satan as their sexual partner.

    • @Cryptic-Game i and many people in my country are athiests... funny thing is though we see more evil emminating from your part of the world than any other where christianity is still a big thing so i would thank you to keep your ''teachings'' to your own reply and not start preaching on mine.

    • There is no such thing as an atheist. My next to last MyTake gave 3 points proving it.

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  • People may prefer sex before marriage because they want to see if they're sexual compatible. I still believe sex after marriage is the right thing because you're losing your virginity to the only person you want to spend the rest of your life with. What if they're not sexually compatible they're plenty of things a couple can still do that are not sexual to stay intimate.🙂

  • If my girlfriend wants to wait, I'll respect that. If she's the one, I won't mind waiting with her.

  • I'm in the camp of waiting until after marriage. I'm personally still waiting, I believe it's definitely a valuable thing and says a lot about a person and their character.

  • 👎🏼...

  • To each their own

  • Ha. Suckers whoever falls for that virginal shit.

  • Its better to take a test drive

  • I firmly believe in having sex before marriage because I want to know the person I'm marrying is going to be sexually compatible with me as well as physically and mentally

  • It sounds awesome in theory. But I test drove him before buying him.

  • you do you, i'll have my fun.

  • No.

    Next.

    • @Cryptic-Game Oh, okay. That's nice.

  • What about people who never want to GET married? No sex for them? :)
    As far as I can tell, the biggest advantages are a) you know the person is disease free and b) you'll have no idea if they're good or bad in bed, so you may not be disappointed! LOL

  • I chose to wait till marriage in my teens, it gets lonely sometimes when i see my friends having sex and they always pick on me for not indulging its part of my faith, and I like to think there is a girl that would do the same for me, i also think its given me perspective and an appreciation for love and sex, im in no rush and I don't really regret waiting
    The stigma of being a virgin loser weighs on me tho likely because so many people make fun of me and its rare that men do that.

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