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What are good sex positions for a girl who's really tight?

I have a friend with benefits that I've had sex with a few times and we're going to continue to on a regular basis. It feels great most of the time, but sometimes it hurts and I'm always really sore after. He's pretty big, and I'm extremely tight. He always tries to make sure I'm comfortable, but sometimes it's hard to even get it in all the way (even when I'm totally aroused and wet). And positions that would be easiest/most comfortable?
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  • From what you describe you don't have much experience knowledge about sex. From my opinion you are an attention seeker looking for comments about what you claim about your body. BTW, your friend has enough but he is not big. This is how I know you haven't a clue. Being sore is not unusual post sex, the female region goes through trauma during sex. My advice to you is to experience different positions and use lube, you may not be relaxing enough to fully enjoy the experience. My guess would be because you are having sex with a friend, this could be causing a very awkward situation. Please don't take my advice as being nasty, im twice your age and have experienced what you are experiencing. Please protect yourself from STD's. Good luck to you

    • The average penis size in the US is about five and a half inches, so seven is not huge, but certainly above average. I don't know what gave you the impression that I'm seeking attention, it was just an honest question. I'm very comfortable with the situation, so that's not an issue. I also specified that lack of proper lubrication is not the issue. Thanks for your concern, but we always use protection. I understand that I'm young, but I actually do have a lot of knowledge about sex. (Looking for things to make it more comfortable does not mean that I don't understand how a vagina works or the effects that sex can have on it.)

  • It's one thing to give advice about sexual health to a minor but can people please stop giving sex tips to underage people?

    It's fuckin' weird. What if your underage daughter asked someone this question would you want them to answer it or tell them to stfu?

    • I'm 17, which is the legal age of consent in my state.

    • I don't care. It's still weird af for someone over the age of like...19 to be giving you sex tips.

    • I agree totally...

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Great question. First of all use some lube when you have sex, even if you are wet. Believe me you will like it. Google Karma Sutra (sp) and you will see a bunch of sex positions to try. Try them out and see what you like! Try being on top so you can control the depth and speed. Remember, you deserve some great orgasms out of the deal and I hope he uses his tongue and fingers to help. What do you think?

  • Missionary, doggy, cowgirl. You could try lying on your front with a pillow under you to lift your hips up, but honestly if he's big and you're tight this is just something that will happen. Lots of foreplay and starting slow and sensual are the only things I can suggest.

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  • Missionary, with your legs up and to the sides like you're trying to squat to the floor

  • Tighter you are the harder I thrust n just love it ! Turns me on

  • Him on top I guess. ... use lots of lube before you start of course. Seems your both gonna be a pretty tight fit for now whatever but imagine the upside is your boyfriend is considerate in bed and that you're orgasm img a lot?
    If you're 18 with more experience you'll start getting a bit looser anyhow

    • She doesn't use the site anymore, she's not going to read this

  • You just have to deal with it, until you've started stretching... I recommend using lube though, lots of it.

    I don't agree with FWB, or girls having sex under 18, or even 21 though

  • spreading legs, taking knees towards shoulder and keeping feet in air I think will make your pussy pretty spread wide

  • Doggystyle should be more comfortable

  • Why is it that every damn woman on this website has a boyfriend with a big penis? And then have the audacity to claim that size doesn't matter... haha.

    There must be a lot of normal and small sized guys out there who are lonely.

    You might as well get used to the pain if you like him enough.

  • Don't worry plenty of guy with small penises who would love a very tight girl.

    The only thing you can do it keep doing it till it stops hurting (if that would ever happen) or find another boyfriend.

  • Girl on top anything with ur legs wide open to take him in. How big is he?

    • maybe like 7 inches or a little over?

    • Anything that let's him ease in I guess. I'm only over 5 inches your bfs dick is much bigger he would use different positions.

  • any tight is the best gift a girl can give a guy

    • How is a compliment sexist. you stupid bitch , grow up !

    • not doggy style you're too fat for that position

    • I asked what positions would be most comfortable for me because sex is sometimes painful because of how tight I am. He mentioned literally nothing about me and just said how good it is for the guy. And I'm wrong to say that was rude?

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