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What are major turn offs about people?

I am curious if someone having a limp or uses walking aid be a turn off. I'm super critical of myself and lately I've had a pretty noticable limp, I automatically think that it makes me look bad or unattractive. I know it can't effect my looks obviously but it definitely messed with my self esteem at times. Would a woman with a limp deter you from hitting on her, asking her out, interacting with her?
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I guess I mean more physically
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  • I would not judge any away if it looked like there breaking dancing while walking :) I think everyone is cool until they are just mean or think there better than others and hypocrites are the worse but I have a best friend sense college damn it's already been 20 years lol yeah she in a wheelchair she tough smart and so funny nomatter where we are she speaks her mind we clicked the first 5 seconds we both talked to each other well maybe because these guys said do a wheelie home and called her a B.. ch I over heard it in the parking lot I walked over and asked her if she needed help doing a wheelie in her wheelchair over these punks in front of her u roll il push the guys said sorry to her and walked away she said thanks and where u going push my wheelchair u all talk I lol and push her wheelchair too a Italian restaurant that's her favorite food I did not get home until 1am we talked for10 hours I showed her the City of Boston one of the best night of my life well she still my best friend ever until this day she has a beautiful family her husband got smacked a few times but a great a guy nomatter we play basketball because she asked me to help him get out the house to socialize lol he works for the government putting peeps away in Federal prison smart dude but has a hard time making friends so he part of my crew only one day out the week lol he trys to play but he's getting better lol our daughters are best friends all I'm saying someone a different color or physical disabled or mental problems idc if it's aliens look E. T was cool lol or they had a bad past everyone are cool... until u give them a chance to find out for your self :) the peeps I'm friends with in other people eyes are like wtf but they have no idea who they are so stuck up & rude hypocrite peeps are a turn off too me shut that down other than that il shut up now lol and good morning to u and everybody else it's Monday off to work I go🥰

    • That's awesome

  • That's a good question. I'd like to hear girls answer this question. I've had a limp virtually my entire life. I know for a fact that I have been rejected because of it. But I have also had two dates and actually been married. But I am very self-conscious of it.

    • Yeah I know what you mean

    • Thanks for MHO!

    • Your welcome my friend😁

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  • Any girl who has short hair, or pink/ blue/ etc. hair is an automatic NO. Nose rings, especially through the center are a NO. In fact, any facial rings (lip etc.) are a no. Excessive makeup is ugly. I'm also not attracted to overweight women, i. e. anybody over 130, who isn't a professional athlete (crossfit, etc.). Acne, although not entirely someones fault, is also unattractive.
    I couldn't care less if a girl had a limp, as long as she was beautiful to me regarding the other things.

  • Women tend to be passive anyway, so it likely effect them less than men.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MenActWomenAre

  • No absolutely not, wouldn't stop me from hitting on her, as least I know she couldn't run away from me 🤣

    • 😂😂😂

  • Rudeness mean and stupidity.

    What are major turn offs about people?

  • Lack of respect for others or themselves.

  • What's not in our control does not, have not bothered me. So... no... it will not bother me.

    I still remember my school friend, who has cerebral palsy, lied to me about the marks he got in engineering entrance exam. I had scored 92.4 percentile and he had scored 20 percentile. And said he has scored 60 percentile.

    I was like..."Dude! I am able to see everyone's marks here and you straight away lied to me". Not to him but in my mind.

    That day, I understood something. He has always been smart kid. Exceptional handwriting and all other things. But his condition limited him in studies. Physically not mentally.

    And he did not want me to see that. His self respect was at stake here. So I did not say anything to him. Let him believe that I believe what he said is true.

    It would not have even bothered me, you know. But after his proactive measures, it bothered me.

    Some what same case with a girl, I think. Not bothered at all. Why would I? When it is not in her control...

    My friend's example was far away from the topic, but I believe it covered the main thing.

  • I wouldn't be turned off if a woman was missing a leg or an arm let alone a limp. If she's a good person and Im attracted to her then Im good.

  • That's okay. My bff is 60% handicapped. It doesn't matter. What matters though is personality.

  • One of my bestfriends had polio as a kid. He always walked with a limp. I never thought anything about it and I would not think anything if a girl walked with a limp.

  • I don't know, probably not. I used to know a girl that was missing the lower half of one of her legs (Like she could only be missing the upper half!) and I thought she was really pretty and sexy. I never even know she had a fake leg until a few weeks after I met her but I would've probably still fucked her if she wanted me to. She told me that she used to roadie for Cheap Trick because, with her leg like that, she could get into smaller spaces in the scaffolds.
    Did you ever see the movie, "Crash" with Roseanne (I think) Arquette? You might like it.

  • Long nails. Bad hygiene. Ugly voice. Loud. Bad smell. To much tattoos, to much scars and other similar things (little bit is fine). Being fat. Bad teeth. That's the physical ones at least.

  • Narcissistic people.

  • Her limp would not turn me off or bother me at all! For me it's other stupider superficial things such as bad hygiene, smokes, facial piercings, tats, and the worst one almost to a deal breaker... gross hands and nails and feet. I love nice hands and nails, and to me that says a lot about a person in how she might care for herself or how feminine she might be. First thing my eyes go to after her face lol.

  • Ok I’m gonna do a funny answer first. I would definitely hit on the limp girl cuz my pervo man brains says damn she can take a dick like a pro she must be fun (hence the limp) haha ok hope that made u smile.

    if I was into a girl I would not give a fuck about a limp.

    • 😂😂😂 that's so funny

  • Selfishness

  • Hell no. I like the person for whom they are.

  • I’d feel sorry for someone having a bad limp or something like that, but it wouldn’t be a turn off. I’d even date a girl who needed a wheelchair.

  • Maybe if it was not very noticeable but still no if I find a girl attractive even if she had limp or another physical complications I might still hit on her if I am attracted to her.

  • Rude.
    Talk too much meaningless ish.
    Inconsiderate of others.
    Stupidity.

  • Glasses, crooked/missing teeth, short hair, bad hygiene

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