What are reasons because can’t orgasm during sex?

I’m still new with the whole having sex, but I’ve been talking to this guy for two months and everytime we have sex I can’t get off but he can and it’s obviously bothering him because he thinks it’s because of him and it’s not the attraction is there and so is the chemistry and he really does turn me on, but Just don’t know what is wrong with me.. so what I’m asking about s what can I do during to make me get off?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's just a design flaw in the female anatomy. The clit is located in a position where it does not usually receive direct stimulation during intercourse, so most women are unable to orgasm from intercourse alone. My ex was that way but she always rubbed her clit with her fingers or used a small vibrator on her clit during vaginal and anal intercourse so she had tons of orgasms. I don't know why more women don't do that. I try to get my girlfriend to but she won't. She says she's too embarrassed to do it and I don't understand that.

  • You might be trying too hard and you should know it is way easier for most guys to get off than most girls and quicker too. Is he finishing within a few minutes each time? It usually takes women longer to get off than guys. A guy can often go from zero to done in under five minutes and I have never dated a girl who could get an orgasm in under ten minutes from start to finish. At least one took over an hour most of the time.

    • Yes he’s finishes within a few minutes

    • Well that's your problem. He hasn't learned how to make love to a woman that's all. He's finishing before you have a chance to get started. He needs to spend an hour or so on foreplay to give you a chance to catch up.

Most Helpful Girl

  • since you are new to sex, maybe you aren't relaxed enough, comfortable enough, maybe you have to do some self discovery like with yourself to see what you actually like and dont like

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  • Work out what u like and want from sex if forplay is off or u need clitoral stimulating

  • You're more than 25% women ever have an orgasm from intercourse alone. If you want to have an orgasm have him finish You by hand or mouth before he ever mounts up.

  • I have dated a few girls that had to have direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so when we had sex, one of us was rubbing her

  • Could be that your mind isn't in the right place, its important to feel secure and relaxed etc, e. g. not worrying that someone is going to walk in on you or whatever.

    Also the majority of women cannot climax from penetration and often need oral and fingering etc to get them there.