What are safe and effective ways to find a third for a threesome?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend are looking for a woman to partake in a fmf threesome. Preferably looking for answers from experience.

[Bricealan]

Before COVID ruined everything... I went on-line to SDC... Swinger Dating Club...(A reliable site, just look them up) As a single guy, I found a couple in Fullerton that I spent and evening with and it was a really good time... Not what I expected... and on that site, you will find a lot of people, many couples, single men (A lot of them) and some women looking for a FMF hook up.

From my limited experience with SDC, you could not do better than them... I found them with a 'beginners' membership, and had a chance to look at a lot of people and you will find the same... You might do better to JOIN for a limited time and I may go back and join for a period.

Take your time and look and have an exchange with whomever you find, as I did as well, and even used GOOGLE EARTH, to see where they lived and what the neighborhood looked like, and you can do likewise.

I am confident you will find a girl, that will join you, but make sure you communicate your desires, your preferences and any limitations you have about what you expect, and what you want from her... That is KEY to finding her.

I communicated with them several times and they were VERY NICE... and had a drink with I got there... she, the wife, served snack food, before and after... The husband was Bisexual but that did not bother me... but I was understandably nervous about the meeting.

Good luck, I hope you find someone and have a great experience.

Bruce

[Anonymous]

Tbh tinder works just fine for the most part. Be straight forward about what you're looking for on your profile. Make sure it's clear that you're a couple from your profile picture, even if you're hiding your face.

There are some apps for this like 3fun but had mixed results. Alternative is to go to a big community like fetlife.

That being said, we usually only looking for a second or third guy which is quite a bit easier. The only time we had another girl was a friend of my wife.

Good luck

[Nikki1989]

We have been having FMF threesomes for years, but the other woman is our closest and dearest friend. There is no way we would bring a stranger into the situation.

[Anonymous]

Anything but the Internet. Maybe a dance or sex club.

[rachel776]

someone you already know

[Snedger____]

Dating apps

[Anonymous]

In general it's the girl that is in charge of searching for a second girl. Show your friends in facebook to your boyfriend, he'll pick a bunch of good looking ones, and you'll contact them. Don't ask me what the girl says to the other girl or how she convinces her.

Anyway girlfriends always brought acceptable girls to me, so it is not that difficult