What are some benifits on staying a virgin until marriage?

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Why is it important to stay a virgin until marriage?

bijinbijinbijin · Accepted Answer

1.) no chance of having stds, but only if both of you are virgins, not just the woman.
2.) no children out of wedlock
back in the old days when women could not take care of themselves, this was very important to be married so that the man could provide for her and the family. If a woman were to have sex and get pregnant then she would have no way of taking care of herself or the child. Also women would get married as soon as their periods started.
3.) God will love you more (for those who believe) even though its not like God will love you any less if you are a forenecator sinse God loves all of his creations.

i feel like if you are gonna be a virgin untill marriage, then it is best to also marry a virgin. Some women will be virgins but not require that their husbands be virgins. Or some men will not be virgins but only want to marry a virgin. Some people think that the marriage will be better if you marry a virgin but the fact that the both of them are not virgins kind of seems counter productive. Like how is requiring that only one person be the virgin any better than if no on is a virgin? there is still a chance of stds, there is still a chance of children out of wedlock and you would still be considered a forenecator.

TheLittleBuggy · Accepted Answer

Well, you can't be a whore if your a virgin (not saying aall girls who have had sex are whores, just saying your can, t be one if you haven't done it)

It's more special, it's more special knowing that you saved yourself for that special someone then throwing it away on some random guy. For both you and your spouse

It shows devotion and commitment, which are good qualities to have in a marriage.

Random_chick_2384 · Accepted Answer

1. No stds
2. No children out of wedlock
3. U will be considered a good person and not a slut
4. It will be more special doing it with just one person
And don't listen to all the guys saying it doesn't matter they just want In Ur pants.

Chronick · Accepted Answer

Nothing. It's a stupid idea. If you're a virgin, you won't even understand the importance of sexual compatibility or sexual chemistry until you have sex. And if you like the guy but find out there is no sexual chemistry or he is awkward or selfish in sex, then you're screwed (no pun intended) for the rest of your life.

meatballs21 · Accepted Answer

What could be better than building sex up into a huge thing in your head, and on the crucial night, having a really bad experience?

Oooh, oooh, I know! Being LEGALLY BOUND to that person who it turns out is terrible in bed!

Peter0 · Answer

Bragging rights?

0neside · Answer

1. You don't subject yourself to emotional angst. 2. You know you won't contract STDs given the partner waits until marriage 3. Pregnancy won't be as big of a deal. 4. Won't be labeled as a slut ever.

Loner_of_society · Answer

Your husband will trust you and and he don he's a damn idiot

beautifulangel76 · Answer

No STDs, no children born out of wedlock, and you get to say that your husband was the first person you have ever been with in that way.

BelleGirl21 · Answer

At least for me, sex is tied to my emotions. Waiting until marriage shows devotion to your lover before you even meet them. No stds are a huge benifit too.

Shut_Up_And_Marry_Me · Answer

As a girl? Because if you're not, a whole army of guys who want virgins are now off limits to you.

bubbletrouble · Answer

Other than never having the chance of catching an STD, nothing

Athleticbroo · Answer

Brb, using it as excuse for being virgin at 40 because not married and saving it for special one While I jerk myself every hour. Feelsbatman

Some_Guy123 · Answer

For me, if you keep your virginity for your future husband, it will show your devotion towards him and your love too. He will trust and appreciate you more. Marriage is not all about sexs. Its about how you keep your relationship with someone you love till the end of your live. Always remember this girl, a good woman is always fated with a good guy. Vice versa

Anonymous · Answer

The more people you sleep with outside of marriage, the more likely it is that when you DO find Mr. Right and marry him, you will be unhappy with him sexually. Especially if you sleep with lots of huge men and then marry a guy who is normal or smaller. It will pretty much ruin sex for you.