What are some different things I could try out with my boyfriend to make my sex life more exciting?

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HollieHol · Accepted Answer

Maybe buy some new sexy bras and panties ? Whenever I'm wearing a thong, and low yoga pants and bend over in front of him to 'fix something', it shows just enough to tease him and make him want to see more.
If he's always dominant, why don't you dominant him? If you're kink friendly, surprise him by buying bed restraints and blindfolds, tie him up , cover his eyes and tease his body. Ice and oil is fun. Give him a lap dance and strip tease. Invite him over after work, have q hot shower going or a bubble bath, candles, dinner , wear something sexy , shower together, eat, get it onnnnnn. Ask what his fantasies are. If its a 3sum, surprise him with a cute girl to play with , with you.

hope it helped a little

frustratedhw · Accepted Answer

Go to dinner then halfway through hand him your panties... get to the car and as he drives you both home (or a secluded spot) heat things up (get yourself going or him) ... when you get where your are going have sex without taking any other clothing off

Nyx_85 · Accepted Answer

Sex on a mattress suspended above a pool of stingray.

hellionthesagereborn · Accepted Answer

Well that's a slippery slope isn't it? Because eventually the new becomes the old and your stuck looking for new thrills and then those thrills become old etc. etc. etc. That doesn't really solve anything. That doesn't mean you can't try new things but consider why you want to try new things. Is the relationship boring you? Are you both less interested in sex? Why do you need something new? I would suggest the issue isn't about newness but rather about the drive to do it to begin with. So what did you do in the beginning of the relationship that you are not now?

litty · Accepted Answer

Roleplay- acting as characters in hot situations. You could be the recipient to a mailman, Elsa to Jack Frost, Sailormoon to Tuxedo Mask, or which ever characters you and your boo know

Sexting- building anticipation before the bedroom using any text based medium. You may tell your lover what you are wearing right now and describe it in fine details how the fabric can ripped with just his teeth and it's so thin that even his fingerprints can't hide where they've been, so he better not have any ideas! :P

Evelynrosee · Answer

Watch 50 shades of grey. That will give you new ideas.

Brinkers91 · Answer

Roleplaying can be pretty fun sometimes. You don't even have to buy anything to do that. It might feel silly, but meh its okay to be like silly and light hearted about it all that isn't a bad thing

eurochick · Answer

Try outdoor sex in a forest or semi public place, anal sex, sex toys, role playing or lingerie.

Hidden_P · Answer

Given the extensive information provided of what you currently do together, I can't really help.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Are you looking for specific things to do in bed? That depends on what you have already done.

BrileyCat · Answer

when a guy gets apathetic and indifferent when im giving him head . its time for me to consider a break up . try a few new things .  if he acts resistant or bothered . then you'll know .

Msuhayb97 · Answer

Foreplay! Boom!✌ It's a charm! Your boyfriend should be good at that...

WalterRadio · Answer

Bring another woman with you.

rassclart · Answer

Different positions, lots of foreplay, handcuffs

Maxine_Payne · Answer

How about talk it out with him? I'm sure both of you have some fantasies and maybe if you share it with each other, you could play out each others' fantasies or try things that you both have always wanted to try.

Phobia115 · Answer

Bend him over with a strapon that should make things exciting

rjroy3 · Answer

Simply get some mood lighting. Like a red lightbulb. You can use a blacklight too. I personally like that one.

Turn on some music. Test out different genres and see what you two like best for you guys. A change in music can make a change in the mood and overall vibe of the sex.

Fuck on the couch in front of the fireplace if you have one.

Give a warm oil massage/have him massage you

Give him a lap dance.

Greet him at the door wearing only a tshirt one day. Help him with his bags, then pull him into the room (warm it up for him before he gets home.)

Texting a picture of yourself topless or something sexy when you're in the way home, with the caption "this is coming home for you. Get it ready for me" at the tail end of his work day saying, ".
Just something that tells him you are very much ON lol

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Play music that makes you both feel aroused and feel sexy sure there is song or certain type of music that turns you both on.

Longshoreman · Answer

To suggest something I would first have to know what you have and haven't done.

rgb008 · Answer

Incorporate some sand into your love making. The texture is amazing.

KyraJasmine · Answer

Use a blindfold, handcuffs, and maybe toys or vibrators! Totally makes it more pleasurable!

londongirly · Answer

get a strapon

kafaco · Answer

exciting... mmmmm... yea... try Kamasutra if you don't know what's kamasutra, google it. try to make love in open spaces. try it in car it's different.

Dale1982 · Answer

18 and your sex life's boring? I could go all night and into the next afternoon at that age. You should be at it like rabbits

naraku · Answer

depends how far you want to take it.  Roleplay and costumes to sex toys and something out there like a sex swing even !

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

It depends on each of your likes, dislikes, soft limits and hard limits are.

lord_chilled · Answer

I would say try different positiins, sex acts, and try roleplay.. A LOT of couples enjoy roleplay.

And try what works for you.
Whatever you do, dont do a 3some. Bringing anither person into bed will never better the situation.

Jason7mge · Answer

Try 69. girlfriend loves it and it's super hott

nomoreusernames · Answer

Well what does he want

Halucinator · Answer

Role Playing blowjobs anal

MeGo99 · Answer

Blowjob lol

ccal28 · Answer

Maybe act like you need help moving something in the room and when he walks in you're dressed in lingerie holding handcuffs

Aakash024 · Answer

Try to be romantic.. like having dinner together.. romantic music playing in background.. or go for night walk... else stairs into each other's eyes.. hands in hands.. give surprises to each other.. this small things will make your relationship strong.. and automatically you x life will be better.. love needs to be present in everybody heart.. else physical attachment will be worth always

ko4er · Answer

cover his eyes

LastNightmare · Answer

did you try sex on terrace in morning

blackwolf3x · Answer

great thanks for sharing

Mr-Kabuki · Answer

You gotta get some rope

MrExtremely2Kinky · Answer

Toys Food (fruits) Random objects Fantasy Roleplay An extra person

CorruptedDocument · Answer

Chicken wings, buffalo wings

Fite4you · Answer

Punch him in the balls until he shoots a wad all over you

FaithfulGuardian · Answer

Try having sex in the wild, it will automatically makes you go wild too ;)

BigBallerSodaPop · Answer

Pour a glass of milk, fart in it, put it in a blender with some corn and strawberries, blend it, drink it but don't swallow, swish it around your mouth.

Then, kiss him and put it in his mouth.

Then, bend over and have him spit it in your butthole.

After that, dress up like and elf and have him tie you to a post outside while all the neighbors have their way with you.

phild_par · Answer

try filming or taking picture with a specific objective to reproduce a scene for exemple...

Scooby225 · Answer

You gotta be unpredictable, extra-ordinary, even a little weird. Example: play the Pokemon theme song during sex.

eagle1951 · Answer

role play

jjj101010 · Answer

Have u tried dressing up? Getting another person involved? Involving food? Bringzing him off with different parts of ur body?

Chevota76 · Answer

Role playing

anon1501 · Answer

try a threesome. mmf or mff. mmf is definitely the best though.

purrx · Answer

anal

Giriraj89 · Answer

try in swimming pool oral sex

justforfun678 · Answer

Switch roles. Use a strap on on him

snowbird1 · Answer

If he got up and went to work with you giving him some head, you have more problems than just sex ! He is either out of love with you or just plain cheating on you.

Anonymous · Answer

Eat marshmallows during.

Anonymous · Answer

Try adding some snacks. Cum covered Oreos. Wait a minute. That sounds racist. Cum covered dark chocolate. No that sounds racist as well. Ok cum covered crackers. Hmm.. I'm not getting the hang of this. Fuck it just drink his cum.

Anonymous · Answer

Doon't let it become a routine HE has to initiate.

Take initiative. Tell him in clear words or moves what your body and mind crave.
Grab his unmentionables unexpectedly.
Don't be a piece of meat attached to a vgg

Anonymous · Answer

Honey, most often the problem is your relationship not the sex itself. It doesn't matter what you two are doing as long as you have that strong desire for each other.

Anonymous · Answer

Wow that woman is so sexy!

Anonymous · Answer

poop in his mouth

Anonymous · Answer

ask him. we're not him, so, we don't know what he wants

Anonymous · Answer

Have you considered pooping in each other?

Anonymous · Answer

Bring another girl in the bedroom. Tall order I know but it's almost every guys fantasy.

Anonymous · Answer

Dildooo

Anonymous · Answer

boys like wild. just become slut for him, swallow his cum, wild deepthroating, heavy face fuck will make him go crazy

Anonymous · Answer

Rope Dildos (both you and him) Chains Handcuffs Clamps Blindfolds Riding Crops Different sex positions Roleplay Anal Edging A myriad of things I can't really say here

Anonymous · Answer

Pegging!

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