What are some good punishments that I can give my girl when she is being really bad?

She adores getting spanked and being made to beg for me to sexually touch her while I tease her. Some of the punishments I give her she likes so much that she will be naughty just to get them.
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  • Sounds like you have a great relationship.
    Remember punishment is always sexplay and never actual punishment. Use this only as play and whenever there is something you are actually really angry about have a talk/discussion/fight bout it, but don't use this kind of punishment to get your point across. It should be fun and play and not actual "revenge or angry pain"
    (Sorry for the rant :) )
    Other than that: get a ruler, a small stick, order some bsdm toys and tie her up and use the whip on her, tease her and make her wait, beg and worship you. Then always take care of her and be there for her. Discuss what both of your fantasies are and what she would like you to do to her. Be honest in setting your boundaries and desires and have fun.

    • Thanks for the rant some people need it. Thanks for the advice. I like the ruler idea

  • a pretty safe one u can do is forced eating so just make her eat food u can also incorporate sex into it another safe one is crawling around on her hands and knees for the day or even make go naked for the whole day, u could just do a regular punishment but in public

    • I only like the second not sure what the first one is about.

    • well based off ur convo with mllecake it doesn't sound like ur very good with safety so i onlg gave full proof safety ones

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  • I have my favourites for funishment but there are also ones I don’t really like that are more for discipline
    Ones I do:
    Orgasm denial until the very end
    Forced orgasm
    Shibari especially having my breasts bound then clamped
    Violet wand on my upper back
    Plugged and then spanked or paddled

    Ones I don’t
    Violet wand on my sides
    Any kind of impact play with a thin instrument on the back of my thighs
    Longer term orgasm denial
    Face fucking
    Ginger lube

    • Thanks so I'm curious what is a plug and ginger lube?

    • Does he plug your pussy or is it an anal thing? What purpose does the plug serve? We have a small skiny one with a tail cause she likes being a fox. But it can barely stay in at times. She likes to keep a tail on with a crochless thing with a tail sewn on.

    • Anal plug, in various sizes and some vibrate which makes it hard not to cum when he spanks me. Ginger lube... have you heard of figging? Ginger lube is a friendlier alternative - it gives a slight burning/cooling/spicy sensation that’s completely safe but it’s uncomfortable

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  • Slapping, biting, choking, tying her up, whipping, eating her out till she's about to cum and then stopping, pinching, etc. Make sure you guys have a safe word tho since physical harm is involved

    • Your 16 and you enjoy this stuff with your boyfriend? My girl did not try this till recently with me at 22.

    • Well everyone starts at a different age lol

    • Hm if love to sext with you and have some naughty fun as I learn more from you. I love eating her out till just before she cum. Teasing her till she begs before I make her squirt into my mouth. After sharing a kiss with her like she does after a bj.

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  • That's called "funishment".

    Join FetLife to learn about different ways to express yourselves in d/s.

    • We did a few videos on there but really we did not like it.

    • Join the groups and discussions. Ask questions. Learn how to do more *safely*.

    • What do you mean do more?

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  • Corner, or wall time. Chores around the house or garage as well.

  • Stop talking to her

    • Not that kind of bad mate.

  • Throat fucking. Tie her up.

    • She loves being tied up so it is not really a punishment. Also I don't like her throat that much. I'd rather take her pussy or ass.

    • Ok. It's something I LOVE doing. Making her gag and almost puke. Something so hot about that

    • Hm i get it but I don't like it personally. I prefer us both to have a lot of pleasure together.

  • Choking usually works so does the rack, iron maiden (not the group) stockade to start off with though then you buy a sybian an let it punish your partner while you punish another women. That's if your into that kind of punishment.

    • Way to far man

    • So light punishment well what do you do now besides spanking then.

  • Deep anal fingering

    • She loved it when I finger her ass with my dick inside her pussy man!!! Though I don't know about going deep. I prefer her to wear her sext tail plug after I finger her ass and prep it.

    • I like her to suck my fingersafterward

    • Na I prefer to rim her ass

  • try blindfolds and put harsheys syrup on her (at most sensitive spots neck maybe one but go from bottom to top) and lick slowly she'll hate it also its a good punishment also you both will enjoy it

  • Lucky girl
    I am jealous lol

    • Lol well if you want I can have some fun with you also. I bet that I could turn you on so much that you will beg for my cock inside you.

    • Damn...

    • Its ok we are not expclusive and she loves me sharing my stories with her. To warm her up some. Do you have a kik? What is your gag name?

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