What are some reasons why you would say no to another person for a sex?

[despiteful]

[Bricealan]

One and only time, with a girl (married) who was a friend of another girl (also married ) that 'fixed" us up. Have no idea why, but we went to her apartment, and I saw, what I thought, were a pair of her HUSBANDS, jeans on the bed. She wanted to fuck in the entryway of the apartment, and not on their bed?

Something was wrong there as I suspected her husband was in the bedroom hiding and wanting to watch his wife being fucked by another man. I did not know for sure if that was true or not, just guessing.

[Freiburger]

I'm married but when I was single it would be lack of attraction or interest. In order to lust after someone I needed to find both their personality and physical body attractive - so poor hygiene, appearance, rudeness etc would be an automatic no. Also not having anything to talk about would rule someone out, as I was never the kind to fuck and leave.

[Anonymous]

If he has a disease

if he has some kind of relationship complications like he’s taken, dated my friend

if he has a really weird fetish like tries to get me to fuck his dog. Which you might laugh but has come up before.

if I’m not in the mood. Because I’m the end I follow my passions and my heart and depending on how I feel everything could be a reason or none of it could be a reason.

[katiesmuff]

Obviously the four you mentioned and I would add druggie and someone with STDs

[Rosexøxø]

Stds

UTIs

BDSM

weird fetishes

Bj- only intercourse/ anal- only intercourse

[Rosexøxø]

oh and lesbian/ trans

[Berethor]

What do you mean by bj- only intercourse/ anal- only intercourse?

[Rosexøxø]

@Berethor they prefer bjs instead of penetrative, or anal instead of penetrative. Most of- or all of the time would be spent focused on the girl's mouth skills, or anal discomfort and awkwardness, for his pleasure, but penetrative is pleasurable for both guy and girl- just use bc and the guy never has to feel "threatened" about her getting pregnant or some excuse like that.

[Berethor]

@Rosexøxø technically anal is also penetrative, but I got what you mean, if he prefer oral or anal over PIV, of in other words prefer gay sex over straight sex. :)

[Rosexøxø]

@Berethor eh to me there is only one. Otherwise, everyone would stop calling anal- anal, but glad we have this understanding. Maybe bjs are penetrative too if we want to get really really technical? As the dick is penetrating the skull/jaws of a woman? :) But to confirm your irrelevant assumption: I do prefer straight men, and straight sex.

[Guy13]

I am not attracted to them

[purplepoppy]

1. He's my dad.
2. He's got a small dick

[MrCommodore]

Not attracted to her or don't see her as girlfriend/relationship material and don't want to enter a hookup situation.

[ushagomez]

That I am already in a relationship with someone, all that I don’t find the prospect of a sexual relationship with them pleasing

[Berethor]

If the person is trans, slut and/or ugly.

[melanieeeB]

No interest, no trust, I don't see him as worthy of my body count, etc sooo many reasons

[WhitneySnow]

Still a virgin or just not interested in them that way

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Why the former? Everyone was primarily a virgin.

[WhitneySnow]

@HippieVeganJewslim maybe the person is not ready to have sex with anyone yet

[mrmonogamous]

1) If they were unattractive to me.
2) If they were attracted to me, but they were on there period.
3) IM VERY HAPPILY MARRIED.

[slatyb]

Simple -- because I don't want to be in a relationship with them.

[20yearsolder]

Not attracted to them

[AddylynnNightingale]

Not being in the mood or he doesn't turn me on.

[HighValue]

Not in a relationship with her.

[exitseven]

I would say that I am too sore from all the sex I had the night before with someone else

[Tina19]

Not sexually attracted to ghe person

Has unprotected sex history with multiple partners

[FilmGuy93]

I might not find them attractive, maybe the woman is drunk.

[ANDYB88]

Bad hygiene or if she’s drunk

[tfan1]

I appreciate it but I’m happily married 🙂

[bean2k22]

If my master is on the way home, I would say no, because I would be afraid the other guy would get a horsewhippping

[AsaKyo]

I would say "no" if they weren't my boyfriend