Because I don't believe in it
I have read questions on here where guys have bad mouth girls because they quote unquote didn't know what they were doing they were dead in bed they suck
And the only thing I can say to that is that everything you just said about that girl you are actually talking about yourself because you were right there with her and you could have changed everything but you chose to be selfish probably lasted 2 minutes you were finished and she was saying WTF just happened you're kidding me you're finished already I didn't know you started lol
In a lot of different ways I've been blessed I'm very lucky guy because I don't care what's going on if I look at you into your eyes I'm going to feel you I'm going to basically hear anything you're saying to me with just your eyes
Everybody on this planet is different everybody on this planet has different levels of who they are of experience just of everything
So when it comes to making love when it comes to having sex when it comes to fucking
There are many different levels many different ways to express your experience or no experience.. and we have all been there if I'm going to make love to you that means I like you and that actually means I like you a lot and it does not matter what you know or what you don't know the only thing that matters is that we're going to do this we're going to do this together and I'm going to make it the best experience you've ever had because I want you to feel the exact same thing that I feel or even more or even better and I'm going to look into your eyes read the color of your cheeks the way you move the way you moan the way your body reacts the way you breathe and I'm going to figure you out I'm going to figure out what you're saying to me without saying one word and what you want and then I'm going to take that and I'm going to times it by a hundred and we're going to go for a ride and there's no getting off this bus no matter how crazy it gets how did that sensation is I'm going to just take you there I'm going to tease you I'm going to let you ride that fine line of over the edge or keeping you right there on that edge until it's time it's all in the timing because I don't care what it is if it's a look in the eye if it's just a soft little touch with just your fingertip or your lips any part of your body you're going to have 5 to 20 things all going on at the same time and they're all going to become one with you and that person so for me I don't believe in any of that I believe in the person that I'm with otherwise I wouldn't be with them and I'm I'm going to make it the best possible thing that I can do and if for some reason I feel like I failed well that's okay because I'll acknowledge it and make it better next time which only know what I know and I seek knowledge all the time oops once again my mouth running over and I forgot the question LOL but anyway it had to do something with whatever I said
Obvious awkwardness if we touch after it's clear we're interested in each other. Example, meeting each other at a location, I put my arms out to greet her with a hug and she really doesn't know how to react to it. Doesn't know where to put her arms and just makes it feel awkward. Trouble looking you in the eye when talking to them and always tries to keep a distance. It makes it seem like they have no experience at dating, which would make me think they are inexperienced at sex.
Thank you for the MHO!
You really do have too!
If a guy wants a baby red flag will probably try and get you pregnant!
If he brags ew he is so bad
High body count he sucks and is a bad boyfriend... But your friend will still date him till she gets hurt with him cheating...
Virgin you have to show them everything!
If the guy is bi then he has STDs or aids and he just be tested! Then you get tested after!
If he is bad at erping and only wants to sext he is selfish and will be in bed.
If he smells something of yours weird and gross. Especially feet or armpits!
All the girls make good points all the guys are selfish things! With all myths that won't help any women out!
P. S. The guys don't seem to understand your q so far. (But that's not your fault!)
Uncoordinated is a great point. Movement definitely matters because sex is all about movement and rhythm.
So is the selfish point. If they're selfish they will be in bed too.
Thanks. And let's add: How much they talk, if they're very silent, don't communicate very openly. Not having many words, or not feeling comfortable to just speak freely are both pretty boring in bed. I think it transfers over. I know some guys think there's too much talking in general, and sex is not a time for conversation, etc., but I'm mostly referring to a comfort level, maybe a sense of looseness, with a sense of humour, so that there are at least a few sentences here and there. Silence is really dull. I think the best lovers are playful, have wit/intelligence verbally, and react to the other person without much reservation. So dialogue and their communication with you in general can be very telling.
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Shies away from physical touch and snuggling.
Shows no signs of pleasure or passion when making out.
Generally uptight or unresponsive.
She might be a bit uptight if she is too shy to hold hands on a first date.
Aside from the visual clues that may give a woman an idea about the guy's cock size, she can also glean additional information about his likelihood of becoming her favorite lover by observing him in a public, social setting. Is he confident and assertive when he's ordering a drink or entree? Does he stride across the room with authority, or slink unobtrusively over to the bar and snivelingly stammer to the bartender that he'd like a refill? All of these telltale signs can provide a woman with a general sense of how he'll perform between the sheets.
A woman once told me that one of the most reliable methods of evaluating a guy is to take a good, close look at his shoes. A man who has a fairly active personal life will almost invariably own several pairs of shoes for the various occasions that he needs them for. In other words, if he's wearing a beaten down pair of loafers that have a lot of miles on them, he has a high likelihood of being a pretender, rather than a contender.
Men: Premature ejaculation sucks for both the girl and the guy.
Women: A lack of expression than appears like a lack of interest.
One time this guy came before he even stuck it in. Does that count as before since there wasn’t anything else? 😂
@Lyndsielee666 That's an excellent point -- you also have to hope that he isn't so nervous about having intercourse with a veritable supermodel that he loses his load before you can even savor the feeling of his cock throbbing within your wet velvet vise.
That counts for sure.
That's more of being nervous and way to turned on or worked up. If he was calmer probably wouldn't have happened.
No foreplay.
A woman who is not a good hugger or kisser may be less than ideal in bed.
The dead fish
Women that are too gentle
Women against anal foreplay rimjobs etc
Girls that won't take facials
Girls that are shy about face sitting
Girls that can't go more than one round
Bad hygiene
... Uhhhh. I can keep. going but I think that's good for now
Oh yeah and little to no dirty talk... Once you have a woman say something like fuck me like a little slut etc it's hard to go back to no volume in the bedroom
sucking at kissing, bad hygiene, being very shy
For me, a girl is bad in bed if she does nothing, or is uninterested. If she does something to make an effort, especially if it's something I like, she's good, id not great in bed.
What about before even getting into bed?
Despite the virtual certainty that he'll probably be disoriented by your very presence, he should nevertheless be able to demonstrate the swagger necessary to date, bed and yes, *fuck* one of the world's hottest, most sought after superstars. As much as guys complain about how daunting it is to successfully have an intimate sexual relationship with the kind of woman they covet, they too often forget about the level of competition they're facing. Just because you were an all state running back in high school, and an all American in college, doesn't mean you're going to waltz into the NFL and immediately become an All Pro. A woman of Ms. Mandy's caliber can date virtually any guy she wants, so if you're interested in her, you'd better have more than just height, fitness and a great personality... lol
@mandyfire98 usually, but not always, girls that brag about being good at one thing in bed, are not as good as they think in that particular area ( this was approved by most of the guys I know).
Nervousness, overly aggressive personality.
Sometimes it's the way they talk about sex or even protection before getting intimate, the lack of experience factor kind of shows.
They want the lights off…. booooring
Agree
If they don't know how to create trust and emotional intimacy, they won't know how to create sexual intimacy
Women who are selfish usually are not good in bed. They want everything to revolve around them.
If they can’t dance
For me it's just staying hard.
When she doesn't know what she's doing (can't suck a big dick, has no rhythm, can't ride for more than 2 minutes, etc.) Good thing I do most of the work anyway 🥱
Bad hygiene. She might not be terrible but if I'm dry heaving before I get to her navel I'm not going to stick around long enough to find out.
Absolutely an excellent point
No moaning or screaming.
Won't get on top.
won't let me eat her pussy.
I can name more
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