What are the cons of safe sex?

I don't mean sex within a monogamous relationships. Because it has no cons lol

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I didn't mean the cons of pleasure but the negative psycological effects of casual safe sex
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  • It is a con that it is safe. Sex is NEVER 100% safe. First, deep emotional connections are made even if you are unaware of it and then broken when having casual sex. Sexual disease is always a risk. Condoms aren't foolproof. Pregnancy is ALWAYS possible even with condoms.

    The downgrade of ones brain chemistry mechanism to "BOND" with a sex partner occurs when one has more and more casual sex. Many confess to feeling used and hollow after their years of casual sex. If you have sex with anyone other then your spouse/long term committed partner you risk having a child with that person.

    Getting diseases often can and does occur even thought they thought they were safe.

    People went away from the societal/cultural norm of sex being within marriage only to (birth control pills, feminism and the sexual revolution starting around 1970) thinking people could have sex anytime, anywhere and with anyone and that all was fine. No consequences or risks at all.

    It is a lie.

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  • No pregnancies. Half the pregnancies of the past were probably accidental.

    Most people are adult-children.

    They have sex because it feels good in the moment.

    They can't pull out because it either feels too good or they were taught not to for religious reasons.

    When you have to consciously plan having a child in your own mind, that's when it gets scary and we see about half of the people on earth decide not to have kids.

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  • if i had to have sex without a condom i wouldn't have an issue with giving him a blowjob and letting him cum in my mouth.. as that actually very sexy to do anyway.

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  • The biggest con of safe sex is that you may forget the combination and get trapped in the safe. :P

  • if you’re thinking of condoms it decreases pleasure

  • Higher promiscuity. And no contraception is 100% effective.

    You're playing russian roulette. That condom that let the sperm through had a hole in it big enough for something way bigger than a virus...

  • None other than emotional. Assuming the condoms work.

  • If you are referring to the use of condoms, one con is they take away from the feeling of raw sex.

  • In the context if your update with casual sex, apathy towards pair bonding. I have no field experience, however.

  • I can't think of any. Some may say condom use but I use them all the time (I'm 18 and do not want to be a teen dad) and the orgasms are still wonderful

  • It doesn't feel as good

  • Nothing. If nobody gets pregnant and nobody gets diseased then it's just some friction between two bodies until orgasms happen.

    Puritans will try to tell you that warps your mind but they are full of it.

    • No one tells me anytging I personally find it absolutely gross. I can't touch a stranger's arm let alone genitalia. It's anti hygienic

    • If you can't touch a stranger's arm then you live in a really strange environment.

    • Why would I want it? I avoid every touch with strangers

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  • There are none.

  • According to Joab there is no sex there! Joab claims that your penis doesn't get hard anymore after masturbating too much! How does he know that? ...

  • Feels better. Never meet girl who didn't like feeling of being cum in

    • By a stranger?

    • Some people are in to that

    • To me it's physically gross. Eww.

  • TBH. Blue Balls

  • Well I can’t wear condoms.

  • Best to have safe sex STDe are so bad and for life

  • You can't make her prego!

  • Where are you from

  • Do you like it

  • Condoms

  • It feels way better without a condom.

    • @update the negative psychological effect is that it feels way better without a condom!

    • Lol... Don't you feel disgust for touching a stranger's genitalia. To me even touching a stranger's bare arm groses me out let alone genitalia

    • Even with casual sex I wouldn't say it's a stranger. You tend to get to know each other a bit and flirt and build up a bit before you have sex. And no--touching female genitals of a woman I'm attracted to definitely doesn't gross me out.

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