What are the things that comes to your mind when you see a photo like this on social media?

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What are the things that comes to your mind when you see a photo like this on social media?
s posting this kind of a photo justified to be posted on social media such as Instagram or other type of social media apps?

I mean clearly the lady wants to show off and for sure she will receive many many lLIKES, and comments mostly for men but I guess the comments will not be respectful at all but even so, I find this type of picture vulgar, ordinary and the lady lacks of decorum

Is it justified to post photos like that on social media?

That photo was posted by a person I know who is 46 and she has a 19yrd old son. She is a single mother and, she likes to have fun, going to parties, and enjoy drinking beer a lot. She likes very much to drink to the point that another thing she posts on social media very very often are memes related to beers, or how much she likes to drink beer. I mean another red flag behavior this lady has. Also she also post memes of hunks, ripped good looking men with chissled bodies. Not only this lady post a photo like that but she also likes to dirnk beer and many of her memes are related to dirnk

I mean even if she is single and has a son and she is like all free spirrited lady I think that posting photos like that are not justified, no excuse.. What is the justification? I guess she is looking to have sex and hook up and that men disrespect her? I mean then women do not want to be treated like objects and that is the reason why some women get disrespected and then they say seeing a photo like that do not justify a man to disrespect a woman even if he wants to. It is not the first time this person post a similar photo like that on IG.

What are your thoughts men and women?
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Maybe she is an exhibitionists who knows but as a woman I feel dissapointed there are women willing to do that only for LIKES and teh attention because they must feel lonely or something, low self esteem perhaps?
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This photo was posted on a normal social media site Instagram, it was not posted on any adult app.
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  • When it comes to social media thoughts are that it is the right place for posts like that seeing as how it is against most social media's policies and not appropriate.
    If someone enjoys making posts like that then they either should do so privately or somewhere where it does not cross the boundaries of the rules.

    Nowadays It's pretty common to have these types of images pop up all over. We live in a time where people are more free and open with their sexuality. Not everyone is as conservative as times once were. Not everyone was raised the same way or have the same beliefs. Some people may be genuinely offended, judge the photo calling the person a slut or whore, but there are ways of filtering what you see at times or ignoring types of posts like that.

    The human body is beautiful, but not everyone wants to see such things in places openly.

    Honestly when I see the image it no longer bothers me, nor do I give it much thought or judge her. If It's not hurting us than what's the problem. Some may say we'll it's leading men to stumble or any number of explanations, but truthfully the reality is that anyone who uses social media is going to come across images like this and there's sometimes not a whole lot they can do about it. So they can try and report it, block it, ignore it or ultimately not involve themselves in social media.

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  • I can tell you this that I like it I don't know why they would do it then social media and let everybody see it I think it would be even hotter. I was communicating with her and she sent a picture like that and I would tell her every reason why I like it but that's on a one-to-one basis but it is what it is and girls do what they do and I'm not going to ditch alone about it that's what they are that's who they want to be I cannot say I don't like it because I do but for me I would rather be on a one-to-one basis if I was to see it it's a turn-on for sure and then I would tell her the story of everything that I would love to do in that moment lol and it would be hot

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  • Never something I would consider doing.

    I also disagree with it if the woman has kids, especially ones old enough to view it. I was close friends with a guy in high school whose mother posted pics similar to this on social media, and his friends found it and made fun of him for it, which of course, horribly embarrassed him. When he tried to talk to her about it, she got pissed! It's really unfair to subject your kids to that, not to mention they don't want to see photos like this of you, whether they stumble upon it themselves or their friends do. When you have kids, things aren't all about you anymore, and a good parent doesn't knowingly and willingly make their lives harder by embarrassing them like this.

    There's also the fact that photos like this will be out there forever whether she deletes them or not, which is something she's going to have to decide if she's okay with or not.

    It also seems crude and vulgar to me as well, and if she's looking for anything more than attention from men who only want her for sex, it will do her absolutely no favors.

  • That woman is someone's wife, girlfriend, daughter, mother, granddaughter, sister, aunt, niece, friend, coworker and fellow human. A woman that should be free of judgement and condemnation for the choices she makes, body parts she shares and how she decides to present herself. Besides, what's so out of the ordinary with this pic? Nothing more is being revealed anymore than if she was at a beach or public pool. And otherwise, kudos to this beautiful soul who has the courage and confidence to show off her butt. Once upon a time, she was belittled and disrespected. Once upon a time, she was called fat and ugly and not good enough. Once upon a time, she was doubted and told she'd never be beautiful. This pic is that "look at me now" statement. She's saying "in the end, I win." Good for this woman and God bless her abundance of beauty.

    • She could be everything you say but to post that for others to see on display on social media for me it is lack of decorum.

    • Imagien what her son will think if she sees that kind of photo placed on social media? It is embarrassing

    • Well, I can understand why you would see it that way. At the same time, in my own opinion.. it's not like it's a vagina pic or of her having sex. In so many levels, it could be so much worse. Again, that's just my outlook on it.

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  • In a free society there is nothing wrong with it.

    The nice thing about freedom is no one is required to look at it if they don't want to.

  • It’s good because pictures like this tell high value men “don’t date her. Don’t date her. Don’t date her”, and it helps high value men know where not to waste their time. Just leave that for bottom of the shelf dudes that are looking for one night stands.

    • Exactly, she will attract men of the same level she is for sure, low people.

  • What are the things that comes to your mind when you see a photo like this on social media?
  • does she do anal?

  • This says it all!

    What are the things that comes to your mind when you see a photo like this on social media?
  • I mean, she's a single mom, likely had that kid before she was married, or maybe had marriage difficulties. She parties a lot, drinks a lot, which can very likely be signs of sexual deviance in her life. She likely knew what the ramifications were of taking such a photo, it wasn't done in innocence. The whole situation has sexual deviance and harlotry written all over it.

    It's sad really, but, it happens (doesn't make it right), sexual deviance is everywhere our there.

    The expression "Sex sells" isn't uttered for nothin... :l

  • She likes men and sex and wants to fuck. She doesn't have to justify that.
    She's getting older and probably wants validation that she is still sexy and has a nice ass. As long as she's single, I don't see a problem with living life to the fullest. Do what floats your boat. And just because she has a grown son doesn't mean that she has to stop living.

    • I see her as a ho... plain and simple

  • 46y daamn she still have body. isn't that inspirational or what?

  • Some people are attention whores and will do anything to be noticed and complimented. I would not want this woman to be the mother of my children!

  • Looking for attention.

  • I block these types of accounts

  • Thirsty

  • All actions have consequences. If she needs attention, she will definitely be attracting bad attention too.

    It's her need and therefore we can't classify it as right/wrong

  • She reminds me to stay in the gym and put down that extra cookie so I don’t ever look like a sack of potatoes..:

  • It’s like an unwanted dick pick all up in your face. They won’t go away. Keep scrolling.

  • Like most things on the internet I don’t stop to give much thought on the post or the person. If anything I find it weird that you’re so invested in her social media life when you clearly don’t like her. She must be doing something right to have you watching her every move and felt the need to make a whole paragraph about her life on a separate platform

  • What comes to my mind is nothing innocent I'm afraid.
    I do believe in personal freedom and if she choses to flaunt her ass like that and enjoys attention from young men then more power to her.
    Personally I'm very much willing to be one of those men but she's no longer dating material that's for sure

  • I just dont care and move on tbh. god guide these people.

  • Most just a lot of butt sex memories.

  • It makes me wonder. Who is it for? Is it a one time thing or does she post this regularly? What does she get from it? Is it just for attention? DIs it a turn on to get spammed by men? What do guys looking for a serious relationship think of this? Do these guys go for or avoid these girls?

    • In the past she had post a similar photo like that and that was like 8 months ago or so. The picture was not of her butt but her on a bikini showing off her boobies or something like that

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