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What are your biggest turn offs when you see your partner naked for the first time?

so assume they are super attractive to you but as soon as they get naked, you realize that their __________ is super disappointing.

describe what and why would be a huge downer to you that you couldn´t see while they were dressed.

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ok guys 225 new updates XD i don´t have the time to read all this. thanks for all the contributions though! i never thought this topic would spark such an interest.
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  • Bahahahahahahahahahahahah! Gotta indulge in silly fucking questions like this every once in a while!!

    Lol all these chicks here chatting shit about things like hairyness being turnoffs etc etc... You silly fucking bints have no clue, I tell ya, being a young man, who has a bulked muscular frame, big ass beard, hairy chest (and yes the back if I so wish!), full set of pubes, big ass "scary looking" scars from where I have indeed been in "altercations"... I've had more lays than all you lot put together!!!

    By all means, if I had like an extra toe or two heads or a genital wart or herpes or something far out and shitty like the that, then by all means that is a turnoff... But when it comes down to what I consider the basics, like being 'hairy'... Sorry to say but as homosapiens we are still fucking primates! Comes with the territory...

    Know what I think? From my ever-expanding experience with you birdies, all the ones who are insecure (which makes up for 85%+ of the female populaton tbf!) in their own sense of femininity (say... stretch marks [of which I have, from gymming!] or maybe that little wart on your butt cheek...), are the ones who try and control a mans 'physiological (and henceforth emotional) masculinity by demanding shitty things like 'manscaping' and whatever millenial cuckishness you fembot birdies demand... (And yes, I'm a millenial too ;) )

    Here's an anecdotal comparison for the ladies... The other day was riding my motorcycle, in my leathers, rocking my huge ass beard, hairy chest and 'scary' tattoos, stopped at lights, see some super-cucked 'male', waxed baby smooth body, dyed blonde hair, six pack abs, sounded like a woman, spineless, the missus was treating him like shit shouting at him whilst he lugs their suitcases and shit down the road... He just sucks it all up... Not only pussywhipped, but a stinking pussy himself!

    Tell me... would you women want that powerless sack of shit (not talking money here either), or a big ass, smelly ass, hairy bearded 'caveman' who can (both figuretively as well as literally, in light of modern monetary systems being our means to living) come home after a long day of building or hunting big game say, and run you ragged in the sack, taking none of your shit?

    Insecurities and imperfections and cucks aside, we all got imperfections, stop being such demanding weirdos and spend more time getting the Big O...

    • Wow.. touched a sensitive snare! Put a sock in it and shave allready.. 🔪

    • @lil_Wítch aaawww lookey what we have here!! Funny thing is you haven't denied the point I was trying to make... ;) I'm sure you crave a caveman like all the other women who are too afraid to admit do... =D

    • @lil_Wítch fancy a ride on a real mans broomstick? Haha!

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  • ugh. I hate it when she gets naked and I find out she's got an Obama tattoo that goes all around her puusy, with Obama's mouth being in the middle, so it looks like my dick is going into his mouth when her and I have sex. :o

    • this can´t be an actual thing xD did you personally experience that? xD

    • Omg! There is a story here! 😉 😂

    • @Poppykate well, to be honest, it's not a permanent tattoo. I think that would be a bit too painful in that area. lol. but yeah, she's an Obama fan and likes to screw with me since I don't like the guy. haha

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  • The first time I saw him I was far from disappointed. I mean he accepted me exactly the way I am I know every little flaw in the 5'-9" between my blonde head and stubby toes. Smallish boobies, I'm somewhat slender because I run, my bum is small. Yet he is about the most perfectest and pretty much only naked guy I ever laid eyes on, ( my little brother doesn't count does he, probably not he was under eight last time I saw him naked)! I was (still am) so in love with him, it didn't matter if there were any flaws, I couldn't see them. I've looked a lot since then I still don't see any, I like, no love what I see every time I see him in his birthday suit! No little smokie (cocktail weenie), he's got way bigger, that the first time we played "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" when we were six or seven!! I thought he was big back then, was I in for a surprise his little sprout grew up, big enough that maybe that was the thing I wasn't so sure of. I thought to myself "he's too big, but just like Goldilocks, we found out he was "just right" we fit together like two missing puzzle pieces! Made for each other!! He was definitely the missing part I'd longed for my whole life. So no, there wasn't any disappointment whatsoever, he accepted me unconditionally, guess it's the very least I can force myself to do. I might as well just accept my sexy man the way he is and live with it!!! = }

  • Damn!! I dated a guy who had a beer belly, wasn't large down there, he was the same height as me (5'4), hairy chest, hairy legs.

    Do you know what? our sex life was amazing at the time because we loved each other and it was passionate and we were emotionally connected. If I'm in love nothing else matters, you see past it, well I do...

    It's no wonder people are so insecure, including myself, we all have imperfections. The right person will love them! At the end of the day you can use as much make up and have as much surgery as you want to try and correct your imperfections. It's not until your happy in yourself that you feel complete.

    • So you hate hairy men?

    • Nope, bit of hair is fine 😊 never hurt anyone haha 😛

    • But you mention that you dislike your boyfriend who was short man and also had hairy legs as well as hairy chest. Why didn't you ask him to shave whole body?

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    lmao
    #1 bad hygiene
    #2 full bush, other than that I don't mind body hair I mean I really put an effort to be all soft so at least I expect not to eat a ball of hair while giving head
    #3 deformities I guess? never encountered one but a guy friend once took his shirt off and he had big nips and Huge aureoles, like five or six times my size... that'd be awkward and kinda funny lol
    can't think of anything else, the rest I can pretty much tell before he takes his clothes off

    • +1 for the honesty and imagery XD

    • I'd eat both of those burgers tbh

    • Only veggie burgers are beautiful.

  • ... hypothetically speaking, I'd feel pretty unfulFILLED (pun intended) if things were escalating, he'd drop trou and reveal a micro-peen.

    • XD yeah same goes the other way around. if she says she´s "unexperienced" and you don´t even touch the walls with your average size dick.

    • aha yeah of course there's variance in the tightness of a female's vaginal canal. However, contrary to popular belief, that is not affected by how 'experienced' or not, she's been in the past. That stereotype holds just as much actual truth to it as if I were to say that a guy who is hung like a horse got into that 'predicament' as a result of being a manwhore.

    • What size would you consider to be a micro?

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  • If there is a disappointment there, it's typically vaginal odor.

    • It's like my eyes are seeing something incredibly beautiful but my nose is smelling something that seems to totally contradict what my eyes are seeing.

    • Or anal odor. Sometimes I'm not sure where it's coming from. All I know is that if I can smell it from 3 feet away of the genital area, something is wrong.

    • I mean vaginas don't smell if they are healthy XD but i think if she smells bad for us, it's our genetics telling us, she's a mismatch.

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  • Hygiene, I'd be disappointed if they smelt bad

  • Untidiness, I appreciate a trim! And long toe and finger nails are a big turn off for me.
    The one thing (and I feel like such a cow for being disappointed or having such a negative response) is a guy took his shirt off and he had moobs. He was generally a pretty fit guy so I think it was a genetics thing, but they were bigger than mine and it was just kind of a shock 🙈

    • LOL yeah moobs are bad XD. Though every guy should be clever enough to have their nails clipped and filed for obvious reasons.

    • Exactly! It's appreciated!

    • Why does almost every girl hates that men have HAIRY body :/

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  • I have dated a lot of women in my time. All shapes sizes and types.

    But there are two that I dated briefly that I just couldn't get over.
    1) she was big girl big booty but also her chin was like a door knob all of that was fine. what threw me was her FEET. The second toe was like a finger sticking out at least an inch and a half from the rest of her fat stubby toes both feet. I tried to avoid it as much as i could would just close my eyes or try to accept it. Until she would like to rub them up and down my leg. I couldn't do it any longer.
    2) Online dating after talking for weeks. We met had a great evening got heated. I was bragging about my tongue skills. Started to go down on her pulled the sexy panties down and : OMG still creeps me out... Imagine clasp your hands together fingers folded over each other. Ok now blow it up using an M80 firecracker. That's what her vagina looked like. I left without doing anything more.

    I am so grateful my fiancee is perfect in every way i was really blessed more than I should be, lol.

    • I woulda dived in arm-first. Lol.

    • When I find girls like that I make it my mission for the night to try to completely ruin that pussy past how it already is. Hell, I even do that to 95lb 5'1" girls. My mission is to literally beat that pussy up until it only wants me.

    • #2 eesh

  • I have only been with 3. But each one was not a turn off. Different but all very attractive. The only turn off I would have is her changing her body to look unnatural and not herself the way she was made. Women are so much more attractive without all the pubic hair removal and extreme fashion.

  • I'd be turned off if he had removed too much of his body hair. I'd also be thrown if he had a literal micropenis (under three inches) or a worryingly huge penis. None of those things would be total dealbreakers though, just potential drawbacks.

    The only things that would make me actually decide not to have sex would be really extreme things, like if he's wearing a diaper, or has a tattoo of a swastika or something.

    • Too much body odor or gross toenails could also certainly be turnoffs.

    • Swastika? Wth? 😂😂

    • @Emagster21 Just thinking of extreme scenarios lol.

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  • What bothers me most, and I really hate, after we have been together for a few weeks, at least, is when she finally shares her beautiful body, but tries to hide parts, and apologizes!!
    I'm with her because I REALLY like her, and I kind of can already guess what is going on, under the leggings, and other clothes.
    Once we get to the 'first time together' stage, I would have hoped that we got past any 'body issues', but maybe not, for some. . .

  • Too much hair Anywhere
    and FYI @katiesmuff... some penises grow hair, not much but not worth shaving it into stubble, bad for BJs later
    that said, my Am. Indian blood makes me an opposite to hair growing, so guess opposites attract?

    • LOL yes I am aware that you can find a few strands of hair on a penis if you really look. I don't quite understand your last sentence?

    • @katiesmuff Am. Indians - like Asians - don't grow hair ergo if opposites attract, I certainly get the hairy ones!

    • Indians do grow hair too. Asians too. Not all but it's not that uncommon.

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  • Lack of confidence. I can get over almost anything, but if a man lacks confidence, it will NEVER work.

    • well that´s not so hard to build tho. a compliment here and there and that issue is gone.

    • That is true for someone who may have a little bit of self-doubt, but not for someone who completely lacks confidence. Plus, if I am going to face life with a man, I want him to assert himself in lots of situations. If I have to constantly heap praise on him to get him through the small stuff, how will he handle the big stuff? Poorly, I would think. I am a fairly assertive woman. I need a man who is confident to keep me in check. Anything less is just not sexy to me.

    • yeah i get it. i mean you can be "generally" confident but still not be sure if you´re after a girls individual taste. that´s what i meant.

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  • If his chest pecs isn't the shape i want them. Or if the balls look odd. Lol i just dont care to look at the balls haha

  • If there is too much hair, like i don't mind pubes but it's a jungle it's kinda a turnoff for me

  • That's never happened to me :) honestly. SO, I'm gonna use my imagination.
    If he smelled super bad, how could I be down for that?
    Also, if he had super silly tattoos, I'd probably laugh "Linkin Park 4 ever"

  • Honestly I can't see myself immediately being turned off by anything. Not to be self righteous but once I care about somebody enough to have sex with them I'm not searching for flaws like that.

    • I mean... unless we're talking microdick territory I suppose but I'd hope I figured that out beforehand.

    • yeah i´m talking exactly about that xD i mean of course we will accept way more if we´re ready to have sex with them but some things are just harsh. for me it would be those floppy super saggy skin bags for breasts. some unfortunate girls have these.

    • Yikes.

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  • Honestly probably if he wasn't circumcised, a guy I liked n high school first time I ended up seeing a naked guy it was him and I honestly almost threw up it was so weird

  • If they were super hairy..

    • What's super hairy?

    • Hairy back, hair every where. So much you can barely see skin. Also if guys never trim up. Most men forget armpit hair. That needs to be trimmed..

  • Having the expectations that when the pants come off this scrumptious large silky smooth ebony penis with a set of huge balls would be hanging between his legs, but to my dismay only some small dinky thing about the size of a white guy would be what I see. LOL

    • Silky smooth penis :p... Seriously? You expect guy to have silky smooth waxed body?

    • @creativeuserguy A penis does not need to be waxed as it doesn't grow hair but a very dark black penis has a natural sheen to it which is hot as hell.

    • Oh , yeah the exact penis itself is actually quite hairless!!! Yeah it has shine. White pale penises don't have that smooth shine?

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  • Fat girls, jiggly legs, that's that shit I don't like. Make believe, pretending their stomach skinny, by sucking it in tight. Fake hair, dirty underwear, acting like nobody can see right. I see right, I see you. acting like you not a 2. Ok I'm done😭

    • dang XD she must be sucking in all the time you see her. A+ for effort. Have you been deceived before?

    • I wasn't even trying bro that shit just came to mind lol I made that up i never went that far with a fat girl. The farthest I went was a hug and cuddle if she nice and cute, fat girls aren't my type. The extra blubber and lack of tone/muscle is a major turn off

    • dude, humans don't even have blubber unless you're a newborn XD but I get you

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  • If he was ungroomed! And that includes everything, not just the nether regions.

  • 1. Bony or broom-stick legs

    2. Falling breasts

    3. Outtie labia

    4. Flat bum

    5. Has no understanding of the male's biological need for sex

    6. Has limited knowledge of the male's sexual arousal and orgasm

    7. Has limited knowledge of her own sexuality

    8. She doesn't know what arouses her

    9. Doesn't know how to arouse a guy

    10. She can't have sex without drinking alcohol or taking drugs to get herself high

    11. Lays on the bed like a dead wood

    12. She lacks confidence

    13. Doesn't know how to give a blowjob

    14. Sucking a guy's dick with her teeth

    15. Not creative and pro-active in bed

    16. Always having sex in one position (e. g. missionary)

    17. Pressurising the guy to cum fast

    18. Not knowing to bring a guy to orgasm

    19. Doesn't (or ashamed to) communicate how she likes to be pleasured sexually

    20. Treats the guy like her sex machine

    • that pressuring a guy to cum fast is the absolute eorst thing that a woman can do "are you almosf done" . like ya i was just about until you just stopped mid stride like that.

    • @Keifer. Absolutely. It's a mood and climaxing killer.

  • Since watching "naked attraction" I have to say a long foreskin...

    • can u pls send me a message if u don't mind

    • I'd rather you didn't given the context of my answer

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