Guys, what are your cunnilingus skills like?

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Love a guy who can give good, hot orals

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I've gotten excellent reviews - both in words after the fact and in reactions at the time. When you have to wrap your arms under her legs and around her stomach and hold on to keep her from bucking you off the bed, and she's stripped all of the sheets off the bed and screaming YEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!, then chances are you're doing it right.

God_of_Thunder · Accepted Answer

Well, it's difficult to judge my own skills, as I'm not the recipient, but it is something that I absolutely adore doing. I'll stay down there all day, if she'll let me.

I typically get high marks from my girl, and she always wants it, so I imagine I'm pretty decent. 😂

BlueWalker · Answer

I tend to be a sensual lover who wants and genuinely cares about my partner enjoying sex as much, and preferably even more than me, so overall, I would say pretty good. ☺️

My apologies in advance for a bit of a stilted, textbook-like approach to my answer, but while I'm sure some guys will already know this stuff, this is also for the younger dudes out there. lol...

But in my opinion, the worst thing you can do is have a "technique". The "technique" you developed that worked for a girl in your past won't necessarily work with the girl you're with now. So, if you only have a few moves, you may never fully satisfy the girl you're with. You have to listen to, and be in-tune with the queues and subtleties of her body, and how she's reacting in the moment. Learn what SHE wants. Not what someone else wanted in your past.

It's also very important to NOT CHANGE WHAT YOU'RE DOING WHEN SHE REACTS PASSIONATELY TO IT. One of the biggest mistakes is thinking you have to "do something even better" in the moment when what you were doing was already getting her off. Nothing's a bigger turn off/disappointment for a woman than a guy suddenly switching things up when she was in a groove of ecstasy. Sometimes you just have to know when to just stick with what you're doing because that's what she wants the most. Sometimes you just have to know when to stay the course.

Also, I know this may sound "lame" to some people, but communication is also imperative in my opinion. Talk with her and ask her what she likes, how she likes it and when she likes it. Keep an open dialogue, because if you go in with your "techniques" and think you're hot shit and it doesn't work for her, and she never says anything, you'll only be a legend in your own mind. Listen to her body and keep an open dialogue, and you'll rock her world. It's all about care, communication and being in-tune with her body.

Additionally, giving oral isn't just about using your tongue. You also have fingers and hands too. Use them. I'm not going to get too graphic here, but there are other things you can and should be doing with your fingers and hands in addition to using your tongue. Oftentimes, something as simple as caressing parts of her body during oral is enough to send her over the edge. Again, learn what she likes and you'll be a much better lover.

Also, don't always just dive right in. Each moment is different, and sometimes getting right to it is what you both want, but as a general rule, start off slow and slowly pick up pace. But also, foreplay and even teasing beforehand can really get her in the mood too. Take into consideration what SHE wants too and don't just dive in for what YOU want. That physical touch really adds to the moment, so don't always just rush right into it.

Okay, I'm done. lol

LikeALog · Answer

I like giving oral. If she's giving me verbal feedback like moans, or comments I figure she likes what I'm doing. I like to finger fuck her g-spot until she orgasms, then back to oral. I like dragging a long pair of beads down either side of her clit. That's usually another orgasm for her. Gives my tongue and lips a rest. She has pussy lips and she likes oral on those, too.

NetSapien · Answer

I can proudly say, I've not ever had complaints.

AndyOh · Answer

Mine are amazing! I am very sensual and I love to just make love to that kitty ( ! ) I have had compliments! I am also a great kisser and dance well too.

The_Maphio · Answer

Meh, it might be because I'm having sex with the same woman for almost 20 years now, but I never fail to give her an orgasm with my tongue and lips. I should try out another woman to give you a more precise detail about my actual skill, but I'm fairly sure she'd not appreciate.

Barry88 · Answer

I think I'm doing it pretty well! All girls I've been with were very happy with it. It's my favourite part of sex, actually, I prefer giving oral to a girl over getting a blow job.

LiamSawyer · Answer

The best...

Fireguy17 · Answer

I play the trombone, so I have great lips and tongue. Been told I'm also a good kisser because of that.

Dargil · Answer

I am one. She cums every time

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Think I do OK. Only been with 2 women, they both had regular orgasms through oral.

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