What are your hard requirements or dealbreakers for a significant other?

Mine:

  • Never had a boyfriend or first love
  • Legal age of course
  • Must not be addicted to drugs or alcohol or use tobacco products
  • Desires to fall in love just as much as I do
  • Desires marriage and a family one day
  • Is decently attractive. She doesn't have to be a supermodel or anything. Average is fine.
  • Bonus: if she allows anal play, even if I can just use my finger. Not a hard requirement though.
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  • You’re a grown ass man that doesn’t want someone that’s had a boyfriend but also wants her to be into anal Lmfao

    • At least be willing to try anal play once we get to that point. And yes, I seek a woman that has never had a boyfriend or first love, where we can be each other's first real relationship ❤️

    • Yessssssss to what @Lyndsielee666 said

    • Haha... good luck with that

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  • Your requirements sound reasonable to me, except for one thing:

    "Never had a boyfriend or first love" . It's hard to find a woman who has never been in a relationship. Especially after a certain age.´

    Mine:

    Doesn't smoke or does drugs
    Doesn't drink alcohol
    Good hygiene habits
    Takes care of his health (mental and physical)
    Not a "wangsta"

Most Helpful Guys

  • If women can have any requirements for men then so can men, you will struggle to find a woman who has not had sex before, try a religious woman or younger.

    • Mine i want someone from my own race, no single mums, no feminists, no women who have choosen to try me now they have hit the wall and i want a woman under 25

  • Your first requirement is unreasonable. Are you religious? I mean, you're seriously limiting your dating pool option.

    • Also if you are religious, its kinda contradicting your "anal play'

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  • I really only said no on the grounds that you have to be her first relationship. Like, wtf is up with that? You realize you're going to pass over a lot of great women who may be perfect for you, just because they had a high school boyfriend or something, right?

    Otherwise your goals chill, though I'm not even going to comment on the last bullet 😭

  • requirement is a college degree and no kids.

    Dealbreakers: controlling argumentative

    • What if he is a software engineer that makes good money but has no degree?

    • you have to have a degree to be a software engineer at a good company

    • I have worked for some good companies without a degree and earned a good income.

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  • @SouthernWhiteMan those standards are not high for a good man, but they are way too high for you.

  • Never goes anon.

    1 to what @Lyndsielee666 said.

    • @_Maya_

    • Second this. Stand behind your word as a man. @snowedin does. I do as a woman. What's your excuse my guy?

  • You keep posting this over and over and over. "Never had a boyfriend or first love" -- forget about it. You can't date women that young.

  • im not sure, but allows me to sleep with the light on, im scared of the dark.

    • Funny, I usually have to sleep with some sort of light on too. I have an led lamp beside my bed on my nightstand.

  • Cheating, disrespect, piercings, crappy hygiene, Karenism.

  • Good luck finding someone that hasn’t had a boyfriend or first love by 25 - 29

    • She can be 20, or even 18.

  • I gave up reading after “never had a boyfriend or first love.”

    Insecure men are an instant turn-off.

  • Good luck at your age finding a woman who has never had a boyfriend or first love

    • He can go for younger women

  • Not liberal
    Financially educated
    No emojis

    • I agree with the liberal part. Liberal feminism is the worst. Why the emojis?

    • Childish, like text speak is bad enough but emojis are undecipherable

  • It depends on your past. No virgin woman will want a man who has slept with 100 women. Thats what the redpill wants you to think but it isn't true. No good Christian woman who goes to Church every Sunday will marry a fuckboy. However if you have a low bodycount yes you could get this woman.

    • I haven't even kissed a woman in 8 years now.

    • Okay cool. What is your bodycount?

    • Only 1. It was a weekend hookup where she didn't want to ourselves anything further. I don't seek a woman that is a sexual virgin. I seek a woman who has never had a romantic bond with a guy before, especially if that occurred during her youth.

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