What are your thoughts on pornography and people who look at it?

[Anonymous]

I have an addiction and I feel like it's holding me back from life and I just don't know what to do because I always find myself right back at it and I don't want to be there.

[Browneye57]

Yes, it's very debilitating. Focus on getting and keeping your own woman for MUCH more satisfying sex. Jerking off to porn is a complete dead end.
First of all it's all fake. If you watch a steady diet of all that depravity you start to believe it, then you lose sight of what a real man-woman romantic relationship or sexual encounter looks like.

Young people today have ready access to porn on every electronic device they own, so they come to think it's okay, some even will try to tell you it's good, or healthy. It's just not. Shut that shit off and focus on your life goals and aspirations. Do the work to make yourself a prize, and you'll have all the pussy you can stand. I guarantee it.

[Asker]

THANKS I really needed this

[Browneye57]

Jerking off is one thing, but doing it to porn is a completely different scenario. The former is fine, the latter is not. It just sucks you in. Kinda like FB, eh? LOL

[exitseven]

It is entertainment. If you are watching so much of it that it interferers with your life or relationships then it is becoming a problem.

[Asker]

Well at first I felt okay but after religion and life lessons and counseling I feel like I'm in a major bad situation with it

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Sounds like you need therapy if you are an addict & WANT to stop.

But porn isn't a BAD thing until it's an addiction. It normal to need sexual release & to need/want a visual stimulant to achieve it.

I'm all for porn & people watching porn if they need it, but i don't need it every time i masturbate. My boyfriend on the other hand despises porn & thinks that it's a waste. Neither of us are right or wrong in our beliefs, it's just a personal preference on how to get off when we can't be together.

[Asker]

Well spoken

[TheWhisperer]

It depends on whether you are in a relationship, or the things you're looking at are considered a fetish or something most couples would probably engage in

[Asker]

Yes I would want to be with somebody physically and emotionally and love them and share with them everything about me and i would hope that would change who I am and make me stray away from that path of pornography

[Jamie05rhs]

@Asker Don't just "hope.". Either you're going to quit porn when you're in a relationship or you're not. Make up your mind.

[Asker]

It's not that simple lol

[Jamie05rhs]

@Asker How is it not simple? Explain.

[iseekpinetrees]

I'm all for porn.

[BobbyC65]

Depends on how young and do you look at boys or girls women men. 💞

[Asker]

I guess

[succubus_girl]

nothing wrong with it

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, it is an addiction. I don't think it makes you a bad person -- we all want sex -- but it is a distraction and it can certainly waste your time and hold you back from living your best life.

[Wise4myage]

I like to watch porn, but I am not addicted to it. If you think you have a problem with it and it sounds like you do, then please seek professional help.

[Randalama]

U want me to instruct you on your peen. Gotta be stronger than that.

[Twalli]

Get off the internet. Turn it off on your computer and disconnect it from your phone. Fill up your day with noncomputer or electronic activities.

[bananathunder]

nothing wrong with it. It's just a tool to help you get off

[CubaPirate]

Fine in moderation

[Turtleneck22]

They are all devils !

[gyaz2]

it fucked m brain I don't know why people consistenly say its "healthy"

[Asker]

YES ikr I feel like it's driving me insane. I'm 30+ years old and I want OUT of it. I feel like it's holding me FROM relationships rather than helping me

[gyaz2]

go on top of a mountain go off grid and come back 5 yr later tell mr if you healed

[Asker]

Woah is that what you did?

[gyaz2]

nah but am planning to. i hope i dont die

[gyaz2]

but not 5 years maybe 2

[Asker]

I bet you'll come back as like some Star Wars Jedi with great knowledge and wisdom!

[gyaz2]

gahaha yep thanks you

[Anonymous]

People everywhere are gonna say it's healthy and natural and alright. They are just saying that to defend themselves. Addictions are meant to be broken. There're virtual meetings that help you beat it.
I can't post links here but i saw this YouTube channel that kinda made me feel bad about watching porn. I can't post links here though

[Asker]

Hey thanks so much it's very appreciative of that

[Opinion Owner]

Just search "Alyne why i don't watch porn" on YouTube if you want

[Asker]

I just watched the video and wow I had no idea that watching it was that big of an impact to younger generations to start getting involved in it.

[Opinion Owner]

Ya i felt disgusted too when i watched it The point is to keep yourself busy and avoid any triggers.

[Asker]

Yes, but how long will it take before you dont feel anything anymore for it?