What are your thoughts on secretly masturbating when you're in a relationship?

[CubaPirate]

[Leapfrog00]

A lot of people do that for different reasons. If that partner is at work or had to go out of town, sometimes you just got to take care of those urges. Everyone gets horny.

If she is satisfying me, then I don't usually masturbate, but then again, I get horny every day, so I guess it depends if my partner likes sex just as much as me.

[siferius90]

Contrary to what many people think, most continue to masturbate when they enter a relationship. It is good and normal. Masturbation helps to balance the desire gap and generally contributes to wellbeing.

[douride2]

If your satisfying your partner I don't have an issue with it. If your masturbating instead of being with your partner that is where the problems come in.

[Anonymous]

Why am I secretly masturbating?

I'll masturbate loud and fucking proud. If he's got a problem with it, he can either join in or get lost.

[CubaPirate]

Great answer

[Usernamesuck]

Secretly?

[CubaPirate]

They don't know and you don't tell.

[Usernamesuck]

Well isn’t it just assumed, we often tell eachother though

[RobT312]

I don’t think that’s a problem. Everyone does it

[Anemone978]

It's fine... I never did in my relationship but if you are but not sleeping with your partner you are garbage.

[Princess3335]

Nothings wrong with masterbating while in a relationship.

[cootjuhh]

even when you share it sometimes?

[megabamse]

Why keep that a secret? I been in relationships where she masturbated next to me or me next to her. Enjoying ourselves no matter what is how it supposed to be like

[Iron_Man]

I think most everybody does that when they’re in the mood and they’re not gonna see their partner for 12 hours. Or they’re on a vacation. Some don’t have time to always have sex, some want to get it over with within a couple minutes they don’t have time for a long sexual intercourse and then have to shower after some have schedules and they need to get to their appointments to their jobs

[Iron_Man]

And who says it has to be secretly masturbating what’s the problem in telling their partner that they did that this morning

[PointTaken]

Why keep it a secret? If you're not together and get horny, masturbate.

[cootjuhh]

why a secret?

[CubaPirate]

Because they don't know and you don't tell

[Anonymous]

I dont allow my guy to. Though I masturbate often myself. Sometimes I let him catch me or sometimes I warm up for him coming home, sometimes I phone him at work or send pics.

[jjj101010]

He’s not allowed but u are?

[Opinion Owner]

@jjj101010 absolutely. It turns him on and honestly if I'm warmed up I orgasm a lot easier.

[jjj101010]

So u only do it to warm up for him or on ur own too?

[Opinion Owner]

@jjj101010 on my own or if he's in the room.

[jjj101010]

Fair enough, can u message me? Or follow if u can’t message?

[CubaPirate]

Opinion owner have you ever kept him in a cock cage so he can't masturbate

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't secretly masturbate. He knows when I do it and I would hope he would tell me when he does too.