What are your thoughts on this?

Question

I've been slutshamed many times, too but can't realize even now why should matter to me if other people think I'm slut or not.

ImAToaster · Accepted Answer

I think that people of both sexes can be put off by the idea that a person of the opposite gender has seen more genitals than hot meals. Then again, some people of each gender just don't care and don't think about it.

The negativity is more accurately directed to those who use and abuse people.

shamrick · Accepted Answer

Well just because ur a slut doesn't mean guys shouldn't care about ur feelings u should talk to the guys u have sex and tell them that. Also ur not replicable or the guys ur one of a kind

DizzyDesii · Answer

Slutshaming is silly. Just because someone calls you out for whoreish behavior doesn't mean theyre shaming you. Theyre just bringing your actions to the light. Ever heard the saying “we dont love these hoes?” Well most dont. But then there's a few out there who do because they probably are/were a hoe themselves. End of the day, you do you but people are always gonna judge. Just have to get used to it. As for the picture, i consider a hoe to be a “not so good” thing because i imagine that person allows themselves to be used repeatedly. Leftovers are good sometimes but not often. It is what it is. But like i said, if you're having fun, keep hoeing until you can't hoe no more. Most people stop hoeing once they catch something anyway

Jjpayne · Answer

It's a little confusing but I'd disagree. I'd say it's letting too much of yourself go too fast and letting guys have what they have not earned yet. It's about the chase and the respect. They need to earn you and when they don't, ironically they call you easy or a hoe... Something like that... That's my guess, hopefully that makes sense