What are your thoughts on women who refuse to have sex before marriage?

Would you say you respect her more? Or less?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I respect that 100%. I don't think there's anything wrong with it as a matter of fact I think the guy should try to help her do that but at the same time if I'm in love with the girl and I'm 24 hours horny all the time I would make a deal with her I would make the deal that we need to fool around once in awhile and everything goes except for penetration because I would want her to experience it but without the sex


    So what I mean by that is let's play pretend you and I are dating and we're making out and we have already talked about it your version you want to stay a virgin and I say okay but I say let's have foreplay but we don't have to have penetration sex you would say yes as we're making out I would roll you over on top of me I would place your hips just right slide you forward slide you back and slide you forward slide you back in very very slow motion just so you can feel what it feels like sliding up a cock and then all the way back down we would do this for at least 10-15 minutes slowly slowly slowly I mean very slowly until your pussy straddled my cock on both sides pushing and pulling into each other like I said just so you can experience it I will grab a hold of your hair and pull it down so I can kiss your lips or kiss your neck it'll also make you lean forward and as I pull you forward and slide your back your clit would be dragging on the top of my cock and I believe that I would give you an orgasm just by the way I would do that but at least there's no penetration sex and you could still experience something that's very hot

  • It's a personal choice. It doesn't affect the degree to which I respect her.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I wish her the best of luck when she finds out that they are not sexually compatible.

    I'm not sure why people who want to stay virgin minimize this when it is among the top 3 reasons for breakup and divorce.

    What are your thoughts on women who refuse to have sex before marriage?
  • I think it’s a personal and spiritual decision. I think it’s beautiful to wait, but I didn’t ! I think my daughter will

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  • Good for her. She hopefully will find a guy just like her. Their bond will be incredible.

  • A waste of time. There's no way I would marry someone without being in a long term sexual relationship.

    Marriage is a one time thing. The most important decision you will ever make. You have to know a person extremely well to know if they are the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. And sexual compatibility is important.

    I place zero value on virginity. I would have nothing in common with someone who thought their "purity" had value.

  • I would respect her more - anyone can use sex as the main foundation of their relationship but founding the relationship for the purpose of relationship is more solid and stable.

  • Neither. I could respect her if she refuses to have sex before marriage, but I can also respect her is she does have sex before marriage. What is important is her living up to her beliefs. If sex before marriage is against her religious values, then I would lose some respect for her. If her values honestly changed, I would respect her living up to her new values. But respecting her does not mean I would agree to live my life the same way. Her refusal to have sex before marriage could cause her to lose guys who would make excellent husbands, but they cannot wait that long to have sex.

  • I respect them more, but they're very frustrating. I've been going out with a girl for six weeks now (the longest it's taken me to get sex before has been 4 weeks- including with virgins) and she's only held it for two seconds, had no idea what to do, and stopped. Meanwhile I've fingered her, gone down on her, etc.

  • I'd say enjoy your journey, and move along.

  • Sex is fun. It's even better in a relationship. We're not living in the middle ages when pulling out was the best birth control.

    IMHO, someone waiting to have sex until they're married is a red flag. It probably means they have very low sex drive. That's fine if their partner has a similar level of interest. It wouldn't work for most people with an average or higher sex drive.

  • She not a ho so I would respect her more, but when she plan to marry?

  • Like shopping for a car you want to test drive it before you buy it & if you wait until marriage to have sex your car could turn out to be a lemon that you are stuck with.
    As for me I’m all for sex before marriage & if a women wants to wait until marriage to have sex that is her choice & to be honest sex after marriage is a dealbreaker.

    A blowjob a day keeps side chicks away & if you are not getting sex in a relationship that probably means you are getting it outside of the relationship.

  • The amount of respect won't change based on the womens decissions how often, with whom and when they gonna have sex. But i think its sad, as sex its great and i think they are missing something.

  • Neither. But she can't be my type unless she's into the "loopholes."

  • You do you hit not for me

  • I think they aren’t all they interested in sex.

  • Depends on why if for religious reasons I would be out.

  • Depends. Does the marriage come with a prenuptial agreement?

  • It seems silly to me but each to their own.

    • A bit of a complex scenario but what if it was for trauma related issues? Would it still seem silly?

    • I'd see their point of view, but would recommend they get counselling for the trama and have a healthy sex life.

  • If that is what they want to do and they stick to it I suppose that they have some kind of integrity.

  • A woman's choice to have sex before marriage has no impact on my level of respect for her.

  • They’ll end up cheating because they’ll want to fuck others

  • I think it’s good in the beginning of the relationship but my question is after a year of dating how far sexually is she willing to go. Seems like many virgins say they don’t want sex until marriage because they haven’t been in a year long relationship yet

    • What’s the trauma?

    • Childhood molestation sexual abuse Two examples of trauma that I can come up with

    • Those traumas can take a long time to work through and they leave the victim with trust issues and not wanting to feel triggered. When someone gets married how would that change how the victim feels?

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