What can be expected to happen to a full time BDSM slave once she signs a 1yr contract?

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UncleBilll · Accepted Answer

ou will not be able to enforce a BDSM Contract in Court, not even if it’s written especially for you by your lawyer. The intention behind negotiating and signing a power exchange/kinky Contract is to define your relationship with one another, your goals, desires, boundaries and limits and to give moral binding authority to your arrangement.

The relationship must therefore be one of mutual trust, understanding and consent at all times (not just at the time of signing). The purpose of entering into the Contract is more to help guide your relationship. It enables both of you to clearly express what you’d like from the arrangement and what you expect from each other.

Please note you will never be able to take any BDSM contract to a court and make your slave/sub perform his/her duties and stay with you. This is because consensual slavery is not legally binding in any jurisdiction. The document holds moral authority within your relationship and within your BDSM community, if you are part of one. In other words, you are able to enforce a BDSM contract if the slave is still happy for it to stand. If they are not willing, your arrangement isn’t worth the paper it’s written on. Even if the termination clause prohibits the slave from terminating/cancelling, they can still walk away at any time.

If you would like your contract to have more moral authority, there are various practices you could try such having your signatures witnessed by a Justice of the Peace, signing in your own blood and/or signing your contract during a collaring ceremony. These will not add any legal authority to your Contract.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Whipped, flogged, anal, forceful oral, nipple clamps, clitoris piercing, labia slapping, breast binding (ropes), tied up until you pee, hot wax, forced to watch them have sex with someone else, fisting, anal fisting, these are all the things I have heard of female submissives being forced to endure by normal dominants. It gets weirder if the Dom is sadistic.

razelove · Answer

Nothing at all... a contract means literally nothing, I wouldn't use 50 shades of gray as a serious reference to the BDSM community. Really think more in terms of hard limits, soft limits, and scenes.
Hard limits are things you would never be comfortable with, say being cut or something.
Soft limits are things you're often not comfortable with, but could be under the right circumstances, like being choked, if it's in a loving, tender way and your airway isn't collapsed, maybe it could be alright.
A scene is any time you are practicing BDSM, it could be public humiliation, getting tied up, spanked, you name it. It will only work as long as it doesn't cross any hard limits, your safety is ensured, and it's within the boundaries of what your master can do, like if he's never spanked anyone before, starting off full force with a wood paddle might not be a good idea.
Use safe words, be safe, and don't take the contract stuff seriously unless it's something that turns you on.

richardcory · Answer

A 1 year contract as a game is fine. But never take its as "real". Always play with some form of safeword, and either person can end the game whenever then want.

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

You should always read a contract before signing.

slatyb · Answer

You asking this question makes me worry about your safety. A BDSM partnership is not an exit from the real world. Such contracts are just fantasies, they aren't the least bit binding. You should expect your boundaries to be respected. If your partner does not, then get out immediately. Beyond that, what happens is between you and your partner. It's also possible that your boundaries may change -- you can't handle some things you initially agreed to do. That's ok too. If that happens, then do whatever you have agreed will end the scene and talk about it. If you have a safe word and it is ever ignored, then leave immediately and don't return.

Marked_Man · Answer

There's no such thing as an enforceable sex contract.

Freyke · Answer

Shouldn't all that be found In the contract?

LiamJHayden · Answer

What can be expected? After a short while I'd expect her to leave and file a lawsuit. As the contract itself would be unenforceable, she's probably win.

Stevefiveo · Answer

Every Master has his preferences. Did he tell you any of them?

ThomasDavid1989 · Answer

Never pay for sex. That's illegal

parangat · Answer

Signing for hell but could be heaven with a good guy

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Just 3 words come to mind fun fun fun

Greenbins · Answer

A very loose vagina and lots of scars

karekaaaa · Answer

Lose her body and her holes

Anonymous · Answer

You will kept in a full metal chastity device 24/7 , to be let out you will give me a blow job. There will be a vaginal plug and butt plug in you at all times, held in place by the chastity device. You will wear a shock collar and a leash at all times in the home. There will be a cage for you to be held in when I feel like it. In public you will wear thigh bands locked to your chastity device, so you will only be able to take short lady like steps. In public your butt plug will be remotely controlled by me. You will wear leather clothing such as mini -skirts and pants/leggings and a tight leather corset. Foot wear will be hooker/pole dancer style shoes or over the knee leather boots. You will be pierced and tattooed to my liking. I may want you to have breast implants or other cosmetic procedures. You better get used to being bound and gaged,

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