I do give him head and swallow because he likes it. Now almost everyday he wants me to do it but I'm getting tired because doing it so much. I don't want him to be mad at me if I start saying no. He is 20 and I'm 18 and been going out 4 months.
Well, I think the first thing to do is isolate the problem: what exactly bothers you about it? Offhand, I can think of four things: physical fatigue (your mouth/jaw/head/neck gets tired), mental fatigue (it's getting monotonous), feeling unappreciated/that he only wants you for sex, and lack of reciprocation: you're doing this for him, but he's not doing anything in return for you (sexual or otherwise). It might be one of these, or more than one, or something else, but a good place to start with a complex problem is to sort out what it is and then think of a solution.
So, if it's physical, then switching things up might help; getting your hands involved or researching some new techniques to lessen the strain. Changing positions might also make it easier; work with him to find something you both enjoy.
If it's mental, well, that's actually pretty similar: change it up a bit. Get creative together, and there's no end to the weird and wonderful things you can find. Do note that by the very nature of experimentation, not all of them will be wonderful; you'll find yourself saying things like "Oh, wait, these are the sexytime salad tongs", but on the whole, it's worth it.
The latter two are similarly related. You have sixteen answers already as I type this, and dollars to donuts at least one of them says something like "stop blowing him until he goes down on you". The idea of asking for attention and affection of your own is a good one (although asking is better than insisting), but differing sex drives and personal attitudes mean that a perfect 1:1 ratio of oral sex isn't always the best way to do that. One of, if not THE, most important things in a relationship is finding what makes your partner feel loved and valued, and then doing that for/with them. For a lot of people, and pretty much all men, sex is part of that. Only part- but part. If you're feeling like he values you only for sex, then try to find something else you can do together that you both enjoy. If you're feeling like you're not getting anything in return, then think of what would make you feel valued (which may not be easy; figuring out what makes YOU feel appreciated is sometimes tricky), and ask him to do that- it's a good idea to have multiple things you can request, if one proves onerous or impossible, but start with just one thing, or a few small things; you don't want to overwhelm him. For similar reasons, pick something concrete and readily accomplishable- "I'd like to compliment me more often" is easy to understand; "I want you to make me feel attractive" is not- don't expect him to think like a woman.
At first you may feel pushed to resentment; why is he only doing this NOW when you've been blowing him all this time? Fight this thought off, or it'll be the death of your relationship. Being with someone is about making each other happy and becoming mutually stronger; fall into keeping score, and it's as good as over already. People building a city don't get bitter because the flood plain didn't start benefiting them before the rains came; they planned ahead, looked to the future, and built patiently. A relationship is like that- look forward now, and in the future, you'll have more to look back on.
No you're not insane. But you need to slow down and find out if he really likes you for you or just because you're giving him blow jobs. What would happen if you said no
I mean a relationship goes two ways
Your dream because you like him and he likes it
Now let him prove himself to you
I give Hubby head when I don't feel like having sex, or he just wants a bj. So for me its kind of the opposite, I give him head because I don't have as high of a drive as he does.
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He sounds very demanding. Does he return the favor every time? If not, tell him that you will blow him only if he goes down on you first. Maybe stick with giving him handjobs for a while guys love them also. What are your thoughts?
Demand that he gives you oral service every day instead.
HOIST THE RED FLAG AND RUN
That boy is no good for you, now make like Elsa and let his worthless ass go. Set yourself free before he knocks you up or worse
Is you are afraid to say no, you shouldn't be dating him.
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