What can I do if I don't feel like a sexual being because of my appearance?

As a virgin male, short (5'3"), with a small penis (4 inches) and ugly, I feel that I am not a sexual being. It would be almost impossible for any woman with my looks to have sexual interest in me. I have zero erotic self-esteem because I know I won't be a potential sexual partner for any woman.

I don't know what to do anymore. The black pill is not universal, but it seems to perfectly explain the difficulties I've had in getting what I want.
How am I supposed to find a girlfriend if I don't possess any physical attributes that would attract a woman? The very idea of a woman being attracted to anything about me now seems like a fantasy.
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  • There's plenty of potential beyond your genetic limitations to be appealing socially. Charm, humor, intelligence, resourcefulness, emotional maturity, etc. You can also work out and still be exceptionally fit and energetic for a 5'3 small guy with a tiny dick as well as well-studied, a master of small talk, etc. Good women will pick up if you start becoming exceptional in some of these areas.

    • The problem I find with those not so genetically gifted if you'll forgive me is that they give up faster than anyone. They give up so fast! It's like in sports they try to climb up a rope and don't even get their feet off the ground before they say, "I can't do this! I am not built for this!" They undermine their own potential faster than anyone. And then they develop an attitude that makes it impossible for them to even become decent at the sport. They become victims in their own minds. And that's the loser attitude that makes them perpetual losers in society, not their genetics. They might not win the Olympics but they don't have to be such losers if they didn't have such a weak attitude.

    • You can use the fact that you might not be so genetically gifted to work harder to put it one way, and that can give you an edge over those who take what they have for granted. And fuck the black pill and red pill and whatever else. Cultivate your inner spirit and let the chips fall where they may. It's not about winning or losing, it's about how you fight.

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