What can I do to make his wide penis fit inside of me?

I never thought Id be asking this lol but I tried having sex with my new boyfriend but it only went in a little ( past the tip) & it was hurting me, He even tried spitting on it , & i tried going on top lol also i haven't had sex in two months so lol
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  • My girlfriend and I have the same problem. Certain positions can help more than others. Also, take it really slow. Have him go in a little then out then in a little more, etc. As weird as it sounds, pulling your labia apart can also help

Most Helpful Guy

  • Saliva is a terrible lubricant. Just cause he saw it in a porno, it's not like real life, it doesn't work that way lol. Get a decent lubricant, water based if possible, and then try again.

    • Alrightyy i never use lube so

    • Like i never have the need to if you know what i mean ahah :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Try foreplay and having him finger you and enter more fingers slowly. And letting your body get used to something so thick. Sounds like you got a keeper ;) pain is also pleasure with a good thickness.. I just my opinion

  • Make sure you are properly aroused also buy lube. If that doesn’t work go to the obgyn and see if you have an arousal disorder or vaginasmus

    • I dont i have that but the situation was bit forced so it made it less romantic or whatever

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  • Lol um I don't know. Grab a pillow and bite on it while he forces it in 😂

    • Lol it hurts like I’m scared to give birth after those few seconds i keot going through

  • Take top and ease down on it slowly.

  • Get three or four dildo especially if varying size and shove them in with lube, until you're stretched some.

  • I have the same problem. What worked for me is to do a lot of foreplay or even to make the girl cum with foreplay, then use lube and make it really slow. Condoms can help too, if they are tight.

  • Open your legs further, take it slowly. Your vagina will accommodate him.

  • change the partner, get someone compatible.

  • Lots of grease

  • Time to get another boyfriend.
    One that fits.

  • use jell

  • Doesn't sound like you're sexually compatible with each other.
    There's lots of loose women out there that need his wide dick.
    There's tons of average sized guys out there that want your vagina.
    I would worry that he could ruin yours and leave you a bit too stretched out and sore.

    • Is that even a thing i feel like it’s arousal that plays a role and how y’all connect we haven’t talked that long

  • If his penis girth excede 5.5 inches, there is actually, not much you can do.

    According to what you mention, oral sex isn't easy for both of you, neither. Your only option is to have patience, relax, wait till your body can take it, and beg him not go fast.

    *For the geniouses that think, a huge penis is the bomb, there you go. With a big penis forger about quickies, oral and rough sex.