What can you do when you are horny as fuck but you don't want to be with or look at the guys that flirt with you because you don't want to look easy?

[Anonymous]

[1amcurious]

You already gave the answer, if you dont want to be with guys but stil lhorney much and wants to fulfil your needs then masturbate, experiment, explore. Also if not guy then go for girls.

One thing: if you think stepping up a bit and having someone for a sexual chitchats or sext, results in not finding the perfect one you are looking for real is a myth. Go explore girl.

[Anonymous]

Do what i do. When i find a woman who's very attractive. I go up and introduce myself, chat her up, and just when it looks like i'm about to close the deal. I tell her i have to go. It was nice meeting her. Then i go home and jerk off. Everybody's happy.

[michael1469]

Well, if you almost sealed the deal... seal thr deal.

[Opinion Owner]

@michael1469 nah, why would i want any part of that walking petri dish? Besides it's much more fun to have her inside her head all night about what she did wrong. Lol

[michael1469]

I suppose, but why talk to a chix that you wouldn't have polishing your helmet?

[Opinion Owner]

@michael1469 why catch a fish that you don't plan on eating? Just the sport of it.

[GiventoFly01]

If you have an older top load washing machine. Sit on it during the spin cycle, from what I've always known women to say, you won't be disappointed.

[Asker]

😂🙈😂

[GiventoFly01]

That was pretty much the most popular thing for girls to do when I was in high school. It was either their washers they were sitting on, or their cars if they idled shaky lol.

[Asker]

I'll try that and I'll keep you updated😂

[GiventoFly01]

It just seemed like every girl i knew at the time was doing that and having a good time with it. After it went as far as me walking in on my sister sitting on ours, then I finally tried it to see what the hell it was all about. I obviously don't have the same anatomy, but it was definitely very hard shaking, so it made sense to me.

[Asker]

Lol😂😂

[triff]

You would need some toys Prerable that you can control vibration strengths in order that it will drive you to a much more beautiful climax

[BlondeGoneWild]

Not give a fuck and do it anyway

[Asker]

I can't. I don't want people to say I have no respect for my body or whatever

[josephinelcajon]

Pamper your self at home take a long bath and relax then masturbate taking your time edging and building up your orgasm!

[TeeSquare]

Either masturbate or just be very selective in your choice.

[Kit_Kat88]

Go for what you want but be selective

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Don't be afraid to look easy! Just flirt and have your fun.

[Asker]

Easy for a guy to say. If I do that I'd be called a slut

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

You will be called one if you sleep with all of them. Just flirt and go for the ones you like. If you are still called a slut, well screw them! More often than not the ones who will call you that are jealous girls.

[Asker]

😕..

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

Just do it anyway because getting yourself off will just leave you wanting more.

[Asker]

Really? I need something anything but having sex. I tried toys, doesn't work at all I don't want people to say I have no respect for my body or boys seeing that I like the flirting and they won't stop.. I don't know what to do😷

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

You could always sext.

[Asker]

How?

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

If you know any guys, I’m sure they’d love to!

[Asker]

Lol I don't want to do it with someone I know.. because then I'm right back where I started. Is there porn that is like gentle and not too.. you know harsh?

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

You can always find a stranger to talk naughty to and not show pictures. Yes, there is some soft core porno out there. Check out pornhub and xvideos.

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

*xvideo

[Asker]

Thanks👍

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

Anytime

[Jamie05rhs]

Stop worrying about appearances. You need to allow yourself to LIVE!

[Jamie05rhs]

But don't go away with anyone alone if you're horny. Because you might do something that you will regret.

[COMMODOREII]

Embrace your sexuality and go for it. Lol

[In_Trance]

You stop worrying about what everybody else thinks and do what's right for you

[andy530]

Own your sexuality. Masturbate or do what makes you feel fulfilled

[Asker]

That's the thing nothing gets me fulfilled. I need a man to do that but I can't because I want to find a real man at some point and if I start with flings or flirting or sexting someone i know I won't find that.

[andy530]

What makes you so sure?

[Asker]

I just know. I guess when you believe in something for so long it became harder to think other wise I'm so used to ignore the comments.. I can't act different now. And I don't want to..

[andy530]

Well I do know that flirting is necessary when finding a partner. I know it seems hard but you’ll find one eventually. In the mean time I would suggest figuring out how masturbation and loving yourself or experiencing yourself as a sexual being can be fulfilling to you because it is likely you won’t be fully fulfilled in your sex life with a partner if you cannot enjoy and fulfill your sexual needs on your own.

[Asker]

I tried watching porn and masturbating but it just makes me feel weird.. it doesn't turn me on.. I can turn people on I can't turn myself on..

[andy530]

Ah that’s what I mean. Figuring out how to turn yourself on and give yourself orgasms will greatly enhance your sexual relationship with a partner when you have it one day. If visual commercially produced porn doesn’t do it for you I’d look for other things that do turn you on and explore and experiment with a lot of different things to see what works best for you as an individual sexual being.

[Asker]

it's not weird to just sit alone in your room and you know..

[andy530]

No it’s not weird at all

[Asker]

I guess I'll try.. Thanks for your help

[andy530]

It can be a hard process, especially if you’re not quite comfortable with that side of yourself but keep trying and you’ll figure it out! Good luck!

[Asker]

I'm sexually active or whatever I just broke up with my boyfriend like 2 months ago and since then I havnt done anything and it's burning mee and I've never done it myself.. Like doing myself doesn't do it for me..

[Valnac]

Assume you are in your early 20’s.
That would mean you are experiencing hormones.
I suggest just masturbating all you can.

[ProfessionalMusician]

Find a fuck buddy

[johnsmall23]

Buy a dildo

[rullysyske]

Have sex with whoever asks

[wiredpantyboi]

Go out of town, have a friends with benefits, become bi

[Boldstrummer1]

Pick a nice guy. who is not expecting it.

[Smirnoff23]

Decide who you want and go for it or masterbate

[Younghungguy17]

You could masterbate and take care of yourself or turn to a friend