Guys, what can you feel when you cum?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I’m really curious 😂 like does it feel like you need to pee? Pls explain 😇

[BobbieBoy666]

Before we get to breaking down the actual sensation, it’s important to learn the mechanics. They’re a little bit different than you might be used to, but maybe not as different as you might expect!

Let’s start with the obvious: Can men have orgasms?

Of course! But a better question might be… why do they?

There’s a lot of debate around this question in the scientific community, but one common consensus is that an orgasm is simply a fun little reward for having sex and an incentive to do it more often, and potentially make more babies.

As for the how, that’s a much easier question to answer.

There are basically 4 stages of the male orgasm.
Arousal: When a guy gets turned on, his body starts laying the foundation for an awesome orgasm. The shaft of the penis fills with a high volume of blood, giving him an erection. The muscles in his body tighten up and he finds himself ‘ready to go.’

Plateau: At some point during sex, his body starts to get ready for an orgasm — usually somewhere between 30 seconds and 2 minutes before he’s ready to blow. His heart rate shoots through the roof (150 bpm or more), his muscles tighten and spasm, and pre-ejaculatory fluid (pre-cum) gets the urethra cleaned out and ready for sperm.

Orgasm: First, during a period called emission, semen moves into position at the top of the urethra and the man reaches “the point of no return.” Then, during ejaculation, incredibly intense contractions in the penile muscles and the muscles near his anus propel the semen out in short bursts.

This quick contract-release pattern isn’t too different from a woman’s orgasm. During orgasm, a man’s brain releases a flood of neurochemicals that launch him into a state of hyper-focused pleasure.

Though it is possible for men to orgasm without ejaculating, and vice versa, but we’ll get to that.

Resolution & Refraction: Shortly after orgasm, all of that muscle tensions starts to fade, the blood drains from the man’s penis and he begins to lose his erection. Some of the chemicals released into his brain during orgasm like oxytocin and prolactin make him feel at ease, relaxed, and quite sleepy.

[Dargil]

There are two things going on, orgasm and ejaculation. My orgasm is much like yours, with a flood of emotion; euphoria and joy.

Ejaculation is the other thing. The first is that knowing I'm going to cum "I made it". I will keep on driving or she will keep on bobbing/sucking, which sort of "seals the deal".
During the course of sex/oral, arousal has been building. It was up to me wrap my mind around it and "work it" so I am ready to cum. But when I have passed though the "I made it" point, my body takes over and ejaculation becomes inevitable.

The first thing that happens is that pressure at the prostate (next to my anus) suddenly builds, like it is inflating or, actually "loading", as it goes on emergency production of prostatic fluid. At the same time, I can feel my testicles tensioning (pulling up), which is loading the "ejaculatory ducts" outside the prostate with live sperm.

When contractions start, I get one big surge of "loading" and then the prostate "pulls the trigger" several times. Load/fire. Load/fire. Load/fire... Each one of these begins with extreme urgent tension and ends with extreme pleasure as I fire. The first two or three are very intense and they become less so and fade down to the last squirt.

It does not feel like I need to pee, which would be pain associated with bladder pressure. by the way, my understanding is that an orgasm initiated by rubbing the G-Spot does give you a "gotta pee" feeling before you cum.

[Asker]

Damn thanks so u can feel it coming out?

[Dargil]

Yes, I do, like very warm, liquid bullets.

[bzcxx]

It starts off with pressure building up in the groin area, and during orgasm/ejaculation, it just feels like a MASSIVE explosion that sends tingly sensations down my whole body.
Orgasms vary in intensity, but the best ones make me involuntarily moan and cause my whole body to convulse in pleasure.
For the ejaculation itself, we can feel the cum shooting out of the penis - they come in “ropes” unlike pee that’s one single stream. I guess during ejaculation, we can feel the balls and the penis shaft contracting and throbbing with each burst of cum. It just feels crazy good. Let me know if you have further questions.

[Joe85]

Your question is very good and I will try to give you as much detail as possible by describing the different stages and what I feel. I understand the questioning in relation to the need to pee because the 2 liquids can come out by the same duct.

When I become very arosed, It's true, I start to feel a kind of "tingling or need to pee" sensation at the base of my penis. More I continue the stimulation, more this feeling becomes strong and this sensation turns into burning sensation throughout the penis area and lower abs... My penis becomm very very hard and someting precum leak from my penis, I feel it go up in the urethra a little like urine (it's liquid like urine). At this time, I know my feelings well, I can continue by slowing down the stimulations and stay excited or cross the point of no return... I continue and reach the point of no return because I want to ejaculate ;)

This moment is the best, I suddenly feel the previous "need to pee" sensation increase rapidly up to 10X stronger and from that moment i know it's totaly impossible to go back and prevent me from ejaculating. I feel my prostatic urethra filling with semen and the pressure goes up and up, a bit like a big big urge to urinate but 10X better with all the burning and tingling sensation, my penis is fully erect and ready to shoot. This moment lasts only 3-4 seconds. Nothing comes out yet but I know that my cum will spurt out without any restraint and that it is very imminent

Suddenly, the reflex contractions begin an my cum is expelled in many long ropes. As soon as this phase begins, I am invaded by a feeling of release and relief at each rope of cum that comes out of my penis. There is no doubt, I feel my semen coming out like urine, it goes through the same pipe but the feeling is very different, it goes out in twitch, with much more force than urine, force more on the walls of the urethra because it is much thicker. It seem to be more hot than urine when it pass in urethra (I'm not sure it's true but it's a feeling).

One factor that makes the sensation different is that when ejaculation arrives the penis is erected and very sensitive and when it is to urinate, it is soft and insensitive. For urinate, I have to push and when ejaculation occurre, the muscles contract as if to hold oneself from urinating. In conclusion the moment when the feeling is the same as the need to pee, it is just before ejaculating but it is much more pleasant because I am excited at this moment unlike if I would pee.

[Mystery1900]

It’s a feeling of release. I feel the semen squirting through the meatus, (the hole at the end of my penis) and the glans pulsates.. The shaft goes into spasms and pulsates with pleasure. The glans bulge and throbs uncontrollably as I cum, it is like ecstasy.

[mrmonogamous]

Uncontrollable muscle spasms that feel like absolute pure ecstasy. The really good ones I get from my toes all the way up my body. I’ve even had one orgasm last thirty seconds. I wish I could do that again!!!

[Bricealan]

Can't remember, just what I was thinking the first time I ejaculated, probably when I was a pre-teen, possibly 8 or 9 years old. The first time I jacked-off, I just knew it felt to good to stop rubbing. I did not KNOW what was going to happen, but I knew, felt that 'something" was going to come out of my penis, and don't even recall, exactly WHAT DID come out or how much. Could not have been much at that age.

For your information and understanding, the feeling is that the penis is going to 'explode' with the amount of pressure that I/we feel during the buildup. A girlfriend I had when in my 20's tried to understand each other's orgasm, and what it felt like.
In addition to the 'pressure' buildup, the actual 'FEELING, is the 'pulsing', 'throbbing' feeling as the semen squirts out with each squirt.

[Bricealan]

Likewise, I always wondered what a woman feels in orgasm.

[andreasderjuengere]

If the sex is good: I perceive it like pouring out ''myself'' into the one I'm with.

If the sex is bad, it's more like masturbating.

[FilmGuy93]

You just feel a warm fullness that you have to pee out. It’s a good feeling

[CloudMassacre]

It feels like a wave sensation all over my body centered at my groin area, definitely not like peeing for me

[Asker]

I’ve heard guys say it feels like peeing when it comes out it’s always confused me lol

[tfan1]

Hmm a bit difficult to put feelings into words but I’ll give it a shot. I’ll use my own experience. 😉. Well let’s go forward past the initial masturbating and hit close to the end. Most of the time my penis is erect and very hard. When I’m ready to ejaculate, I feel a pressure where my penis and scrotum meet together. There is a rapid almost lightning fast reaction and you feel that pressure going up through the penis and bang you see either watery or thick semen ooze or blow out of the urethra of the penis head. 👍🙂

[Asker]

So can u feel it coming out?

[tfan1]

Yes for a split second then it feels like pulse after pulse shoots out. I usually ejaculate about 6 times per masturbation session 👍🙂

[JPresidente]

It’s different from pee. It comes up and basically sits in your shaft or close to it and then it’s like a switch you learn to control releasing it or holding it in. Then the orgasm coincides with the release. The more you have built up, the greater the feeling.