Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Why do men get so intimidated by women that have either been with a lot of men before them or who have a lot of experience in the bedroom?
Why do they often class them as "sluts", when men are most of the time classed as the opposite?
Do you think it should be taken on an individual basis, getting to know the person, knowing that you have someone that will know what they are doing and how etc?
As far as I'm aware, as women, we don't judge as highly as this, and would see that you got experience in and enjoyed yourself.
For me, it was a good thing because I played the field when I was younger, and as an adult have always been faithful, honest and my sexual experience has always been a plus, in my relationships.
There must be more to this, maybe it's down to male insecurities? If not/so, please tell me why/not etc. Plus any other details you wish to express about your experiences 😍
What constitutes a lot of men, for women to to have had sex with?
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I am ABSOLUTELY STUNNED by these responses already... Some by the sheer stupidity, and some by the judgement of women... Which I guess I expected a little of, but to this extent, I think is absolutely crazy!! 💯🤦🏻♀️
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9 34Most women probably under 10, for sex workers more than 60+
It's because we're looking for loyalty and commitment.
"and as an adult have always been faithful, honest and my sexual experience has always been a plus, in my relationships."
You just proved our point. You said "relationships."
Not "relationship.". "Relationships" (plural.). Not one. Many. Which means you haven't been able to stay with anyone.
It's okay to expect virgin partners if you're one yourself. Which you are. So green card!
@anon1903 Alright! Thank you!
To some extent its relative to their age. Like 21-40 is absolutely high for a 20 years old but for a 40 years old not so much.
for me personally idc what number you have as long as you do it safely and responsibly. plus you probably know what you want and like in the bedroom so cuts out a lot of guesswork mmm ;)
While I have an opinion on what is considered a lot of sexual partners, I also don't think it matters and couldn't care less if her body count is high out low
But up answer your question... It entirely depends on the age. 20 is a lot for an 18yo but nothing special for someone double her age
Anyway, people should stop caring so much about it. Many people don't tell the truth when asked about it anyway because they're afraid of shaming
I personally feel more than 3 is too many. Ideal is 1.
The average woman has 4 sexual partners in their life, the average man has 6.
Double that is obviously a lot.
More than 10 and you're a slut; Whether that is an insult to you is up to you.
@tallanon @lovingjo you probably think that I’m a Slut, but I don’t care what anyone thinks about me
@tallanon THIS THIS ABSOLUTE BS!! 💯 @jennz6 I'm surprised you actually said this, why the hell would I think this? I thought you knew me better than this already? 🤔🫂
@lovingjo Aww don’t be angry with me @lovingjo I am just not feeling well today
Personally I love a cute slut, but don't deny facts.
probably they are virgins unless internet porn counts
You aren't serious? 🤔
i never judge anyone's past if i feel a connection i only focus on the present time and moving forward getting to know the person and their interests, likes/ dislikes etc 😃
have sex with as many people as you want. Who cares?
No clue number wise. Don't want to take a random pick. Any number is ok. As long as she is ddf. Getting tested regularly. How much baggage would she have. Why would she be with that many men.
"Why would she be with that many men"? 🤔
So if you have more than 8, I don’t want it. If I were still available, I would have my pick and that does not include sluts. Why would I accept that? I don’t have to. Not only do I not want it but it would reflect poorly on me as a successful man if I had such common trash in my arm. And I certainly don’t want to hear from others that they stuffed her themselves along with half the neighborhood. Just no. No.
I just don't want to have bust my butt all this time to get to a place in life where now people want me to just give it away to some hoe. No, I want to give my best to someone who actually cares and will be grateful. Not someone who has had everything under the sun already.
Omg... I CANNOT believe you just said the word "grateful"... what makes you so awesome, that women would/should be grateful for having had you enter them? 🤔
For a woman my age, anything above 3 or 4 is problematic.
And no, it has nothing to do with being "intimidated".
More than your age
I think this video will be the best explanation you’ll get.
No video?
youtu. be/N02jJdmS0dU Hopefully this works, just remove the spaces. Interested in hearing your thoughts on it after you’re finished.
Man is a key. Woman is a lock. A key that opens a lot of different locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by a lot of different keys is a shitty lock.
Such a shitty misogynistic response!!
Probably more than 10
Just be grateful that this is just an Internet thing, and even at that, mostly a GAG thing. No guy in the real world has ever worried about that. They don't ask me, and I don't ask them. However, they do sometimes ask if I've had bigger than them. The best answer is YES. That puts it to rest. If you say no, they won't believe you.
Per your update... why would you be stunned by anything on GAG? lol A hockey player in my city reportedly had sex with 180 women in one year from Tinder. But he was hailed as a hero for that.
There is no limit, and it is nobodies business anyway.