What constitutes sleeping around too much in someone’s past?

This question pertains to both guys and girls, so depending on which you choose please explain further and be specific.

Examples:

Number of partners (1-3, 3-6, 6-12 ect)

Frequency (1 partner per month, 1 every 3 months, 1 every 6 months)

How quickly (One night stand/first date, within 1-3 dates, 3-5 dates)
Number of sexual partners
Vote A
Frequency - How many partners in any given period
Vote B
How quickly they sleep with someone they meet
Vote C
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
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Most Helpful Girls

  • All of the above to be honest, mostly number of partners, because frequency can be a good thing when it's changed... for example, when someone had 10 partners in one month but only 11 in total, you can talk about it, something must have happened in that month, right?

    How quickly they sleep with someone they meet says something about how they value relationships in my opinion. I don't like when people are only in it for the sex, I don't date guys like that.

  • Too much is when it has a lasting negative effect on the person. That's the only measurement that counts. Not numbers, not frequency, not how fast.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Why do people talk about this topic as though somebody's sexual past is even verifiable? Public opinion isn't going to change anyone's behavior except how much they share or withhold that information from others.

  • Number of sex partners if a girl has slept with one guy a thousand times I can accept that but if a girl has been with 30 guys you don't marry that!

    • How would you feel about a girl who slept with 6 guys in an 18 month period with two one night stands in there?

    • It is still too much for me to be able to deal with

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Numbers don’t matter because they have no impact on anything in the present. Health, and stupid mistakes are what matters. You can wait till you are married and still get HIV that makes you an idiot. you can fuck 1,000 people and avoid problems.

    • It does have a bearing on the present. It has a bearing on how I view her, her judgement, her morals. I’ll pass. You get to chose who you want to fuck... and I do too.

  • I’d say it’s both the top 2 answers because if you have sexual partners frequently then surely those numbers would add up rapidly.

  • I disagree. Any woman under the age of 30 that has been with more than 30 men are nasty

  • You missed none of the above

  • None.. I just care about how they treat me.

    • correct answer. that means to be an emotionally grown person.

  • Any sex outside of marriage.

  • I voted A but I'd say A and B