What could be the reasons of a man not fucking his girlfriend for 3 years?

[Anonymous]

P. S They live together. The man is 2x older than the woman

[SteveSmith1985]

Well there could be a whole bunch of different reasons. This is going to be very situational-dependent.

It means there's a problem with that couple's sex-life that needs to be talked about. Whatever is going on... you need to talk about it!

This is not an unreasonable question you're asking here. It's not unreasonable for you to ask HIM to help you understand what's happening here.

Anything anyone tells you here is going to just be a guess. Nothing more. None of us have any idea why YOUR boyfriend hasn't wanted to have sex in 3 years. Whatever is going on WON'T be the same as anyone's answer here. How can it be? There is no reason that's common. Anyone in your situation is going to be in it for their own reasons specific to that couple.

He is the only one who can help you understand this. But you deserve an answer. You are going to have to ask him, or you won't ever get an answer. Not a true one anyway. You need to talk.

[FunkyMonkee]

He just doesn't have the urge, anymore, he can't get it up, she won't LET him fuck her, one or the other has some kind of disease, he's gay, she's gay, he wants to become a girl, she wants to become a guy, one of them has already made the switch and hasn't told the other, yet, any number of reasons.

[BigBlueEyes343]

Erectile dysfunction, asexual, sensory autism issues, tired or stressed or cheating.

[ShiftingMonke]

He may be suffering from ED, he could be facing health complications, or he may be finding sexual gratification elsewhere.

[summiter]

Yikes! Is he having an affair? Is he jerking off a lot instead? Or perhaps he has ED issues and can't get a boner. Is this a friend of yours or a current boyfriend?

[SnowedIn]

What could be the reasons she would put up with that for three years.

Seriously.

Health reasons, stress, masturbating, porn, another girl on the side.

Come on. This is silly.

[andreasderjuengere]

She does not inspire him.

Perhaps, because all she has to offer is a low number of years lived...

and otherwise she has not much to ''bring to the table'' (such as intelligent conversations; advanced maturity)

I would not be surprised if he gets his sex -silently- away from home :)

[Wise4myage]

He's gotta a side chick.

[Noodle_fan]

what is his job?

if people work too much , men or women , combined by stress caused by work , can greatly affect the sex drive

[In_Trance]

communication breakdown

[Hell_boy]

He is too shy to ask it out to her?🙄

[tallblondejohm]

Cause he can't get hard

[Anonymous]

Side chick.

[Anonymous]

It means she is an idiot for not leaving 35 month ago.

[Anonymous]

He's probably bored and fucking other women.