Anal is a regular part of our sex life for me and my girl. She's the one who got me into it and I know she gets off on it, so that's probably the biggest thing I like about it. She cums really hard that way and that's just hot.
I also like the way it feels. It's really tight around the opening so when I'm balls deep in her ass I get this feeling like my whole dick is being squeezed and sucked into her. Vaginas don't have that same tightness around the opening.
Also, I can go deeper in her ass. In her vagina I bump into her cervix which is painful for her, so I can never go balls deep. But in her ass, once she has warmed up and relaxed I can go as deep as I want, which feels amazing.
And of course there's the fact that she can't get pregnant, so I can cum deep in her ass and not feel any concern. There is also something hot about her falling asleep with my load deep in her ass and knowing it's there all night that is really hot for some reason.
For me, it's about three things and all or none or some of these may apply to your ex and current boyfriend.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!On the flip side I'm not a big fan of anal I can't pass up a perfectly good Vagina.
If I'm with a girl who wants it I'm not going to decline.
Anal sex is more pleasurable then Vaginal sex because its tighter, it increases the male sex drive with the great feel of sensation pleasure, a woman will definitely have an orgasm especially when he does it right with preparation from the woman (Caution). Although Vaginal sex will always be number 1 (which Most Men can agree) Anal sex is just another complementary benefit (or Option) to enjoy with the woman.
I can't say i enjoy it more, but it's a pleasureable alternative.
Potential Reasons: Tighter, "forbidden", "dirty", dominant.
It's tighter. Think about it this way, the natural movement of the vagina is to expand (for cocks and babies). The natural movement of the anus is to contract (to keep turds in).
It's usually tighter and just a different feeling. Oral and vaginal produce different feelings, anal is just one more.
it's tighter, offers a rush-and more visually appealing
I dont. Vagina all the way baby!
It is a very tight fit and the taboo nature of the act triples the excitement!
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