What do guys think when they meet an attractive girl with big boobs?

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  • First, there's just this unconscious reflexive instinctive response. There's no real thinking involved - just reacting and that reaction is arousal unless the boobs are ridiculous looking.

    Then, we might begin to have fantasies like motorboating or titty fucking or whatever.

    After that, guys may have fantasies and each guy may have different fantasies based on fetishes or other kinks. With me, you have to PM me if you want me discuss specifics.

    However, I want to say that all straight guys get like this will pretty much all boobs or cleavage, and not just large ones. That said, larger boobs may cause more arousal.

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  • TBH one of the first things I think is to not call attention to her big boobs. Lord knows I'd like to look at them! But I over-compensate and never look at them (... except when I'm 200% sure she won't catch me!).

    Only if she's flaunting them directly in front of me, giving me unmistakable signals she *wants* me to look, will I take a peek.

    I am probably an outlier. I'm guessing most men are at least a bit more likely to look than I.

    But I grew up with three older sisters and two female cousins all of whom complained about guys in various respects - including feeling uncomfortable when a guy checks out a girl's chest. That's why I am very respectful of any woman's looks and make an effort to not do anything to make her feel uncomfortable. Although heaven knows I'd like (almost) nothing other than to look at an attractive girl's attractive parts! But I have respect for her, for myself, and for social norms.

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  • Good view. Next!

    This may sound harsh to you but believe me, it's kinda neutral thing unless you're wearing those push bras to show off cleavage. Nothing wrong with that either, it's just — show off is a turn off for 90% of men.

  • I'm thinking it's something like this... lol

    What do guys think when they meet an attractive girl with big boobs?
    My eyes are up further :)
    My eyes are up further :)

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  • I think for guys a girl with big boobs is always attractive lol

    • Aren't boobs attractive to you?

    • @insteadfew Nope not really, but I know they are to guys

  • I think, "What a shame her boobs are so big."

  • Often times, we don't "think."

  • I admire their good looks and hopefully their personality. I always tried try to engage in a good convo and see where it lead to. As you know all younger guys are horny all the time so of course they are also thinking about having sex with her.

  • I think there is a hot chick with big boobs.

  • I usually think that it would be a huge undertaking with no shortage of competition just to touch them and even if successful I'd ultimately want to bend her over. So I don't bother.

  • There isn't anything specific I think when I see attractive people. I can judge that without thinking, it's a background task.

  • I generally enjoy that because big boobs are definitely my weak spot. Only time I don't enjoy it is if she is an actual bitch because she knows her boobs are big, or acts like the only reason any guy would be saying something to her is because she has big boobs, when there are a lot of guys who are not even breast men.

  • It depends on the girl. And it definitely depends on more than her attractiveness or the size of her breasts. I don't have any assumptions or preconceptions about women based on their breast size.

  • i wish i could date her but her boobs are too big

  • They wonder what they feel like.

  • Nothing really. "She has big boobs"? Not impressive to me.

  • I wasn't aware I needed to have thoughts about them based on that. Easier to first learn their personality to see if thinking about them is a worthy endeavour.

    If you meet an attractive man who is tall, do you have different thoughts compared to a shorter attractive man?

  • Honestly, I don't have the courage to look at women, beautiful, sexy, or normal. maybe the average homeboy is also like me. and also actually i want a woman who is not beautiful or not sexy i am afraid if she is sexy or beautiful she will be harassed by men

  • I think about how it would feel to play with her boobs.

  • Ooooo, what a lovely bit of stuff!! I'd love to get me fivers on those!!

  • I think "Wow that's an attractive girl with big boobs." lmao

  • It is usually the little head that does the thinking.

  • There is a huge disconnect between giys and girls here. When a guy sees an attractive girl she is atractive.

    There is no further thought. Its stimulus reaction. This has to do with how male vs female brains are wired. The centers for sexual arousal are tied directly into the parts of the brain that process visual information. This is opposed to female brains where the centers for arousal are tied into the areas that process thought and communication.

    So for women its sight, thought, arousal
    In guys sight, arousal then thought. If a guy chooses not to act on the impulse then there may be no thought at all. Its simply the fact that its sexy nothing more nothing less. No different than if you had a sexy thought and just let it go.

    This is a profound difference and so basic that these conversations are comparing apples to oranges. And neither side gets what the other is saying.

  • That why didn't they meet her earlier lol

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