What do guys want girls to feel/ think during sex?

During sex, what sort of things would you wish your partner to feel / think about during sex?
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  • Well, no matter what our status is (stranger I met at a party, or a serious girlfriend), the main goal is for her to feel pleasure - to have her mind blown and to feel passionate and free and wild and naughty and sexy. To completely surrender to her own lust and pleasure and hold nothing back.

    Certainly if the girl is a girlfriend that I'm in love with, then there's a whole other layer there that includes closeness, communication, and sharing in a way that can't be duplicated. But not every situation is that situation.

    Sometimes it's just casual sex, and in that case, it doesn't need to be about anything more than just pleasure. As a man, I'm perfectly happy with that, without it having to "mean" anything more.

  • Want her to feel safe, connected to me, relaxed, free, and energetic. It’s my job to help her feel relaxed and if her mind is void of any worries or insecurities then she can feel her body and the intimacy.

    • Want her to think naughty thoughts where she can be creative and open to the experience. Think that she is desired and think she is grateful that I love her

    • So essentially you want her to feel open, free, comfortable and to notice the attention you're giving her?

    • Yes because the opposite of that would be her feeling disconnected, concerned, closed, and not willing to be herself. Real intimacy can be raw and vulnerable so I want her to feel validated and know she can feel pleasure and that she deserves it

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  • Total pleasure... and now that we are monogamous I want her to know that it’s love

  • I want her to feel my passion by desired my touch everything I do to her I want her to feel it deep but it has to be done the right way if I do that that's what she's going to be thinking about is that Sensation that bond that moment slow and deep

  • I want them to feel loved, even if it is a short visit.

  • Erm... not my job, nor my right, to tell you what to think and feel.

  • My hope is to be able to bring pleasure to them, I don’t want them to feel uncomfortable or forced in any way

    • I mean what's the one thing you desire them to feel/ think the most? Do you want them to feel loved, comforted, supported? Do you want them to think you're the only man in their world?

    • I want them to feel snuggly squirmy good. Like no worries happiness

    • "Snuggly squirmy good" I like that 😄

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  • Relaxed, aroused and pleasured.

  • I want her to focus on how good it feels. Sex is nothing more than for enjoyment with me. Reproduction will not happen, and I will get tested before entering any relationship from here on (I didn't when I was a virgin). Therefore the only reason for sex is because we like it. If she's not enjoying it fully, there's no point in having it.

  • I want her to feel loved, horny and wants to be with me only.

  • Arousal, pleasure, passion, fulfilment

  • Enjoy, what ever it feels how ever it feels. Shouldn't be painful. Guide us. Go fast, go slow, harder. Let us know if you want it any different. "Oh yes, right there baby" Put on effortless facial expressions. Effortless vocalization like sea gulls. Suck on my tits. Bite harder. Eat my pussy. Any thing and every thing.

  • I want her to feel a lot of sexual pleasure and I want her thinking she'll wanna do it a lot more with me and only me.