What do I do about my boyfriend pushing my head down to give him bj and taking me for granted?

My boyfriend knows I like making him feel good but he will push my head down for a bj and he thinks I like doing it anytime he wants. Sometimes I just don't feel like it or my jaw is still tired from last time. I tried telling him. What else can I do?
What do I do about my boyfriend pushing my head down to give him bj and taking me for granted?
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  • Not give him head, how are you gonna let him control your mouth, if he gets angry or whatever that is a form of manipulation that seems to work for him everytime because somehow you do it when you don't want too, if he just grabs your head that is sexual assault and not only is it illegal, it is completely wrong and totally socially unacceptable, you got to set your foot down even if he gets butthurt and starts crying like a bitch, you say no and let no be the answer, if he doesn't want to have sex with you then you masturbate cause your relationship won't stay healthy like this, it will get to the point when you will lose sexual attraction for him simply cause he isn't respecting you how he should be.

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  • Since he isn't listening to you then it sounds like he either doesn't care, doesn't respect you, or both. That's being selfish too of him. He's doing it anyways for his own pleasure when you don't want to and he knows it.

    At this point I'd recommend telling him in an upsetting way to really try to get him to understand that you don't want the relationship to be that way. Some people don't get it until you put strong feelings behind your words. It strikes them that you're dead serious about it.

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  • Just suck it. Or buy him a fleshlight that you can use on him when your mouth hurts

  • You tell him no, you will not tolerate giving him a BJ when you don't feel like it. If he persists, leave him. He doesn't respect your boundaries.

  • Just say no lol jk no no say nope nope not again time out for me it's half time baby lol😂😂 jk again I don't know il shut up now sorry lol!

  • You dress like otaku, follow orders, the man rules.

    • Lol Maybe

  • When a woman says she doesn't want to do something and a man pushes her head down anyway... You should not have to say this even once. Please stick up for yourself. If he doesn't care then I'd suggest finding someone that has more respect for others.

  • Push his head down towards any male's dick and ask him how it feels.

  • Push his hand away. Make sure he knows you want do it… your not obligated to please him whenever he wants you too. When you say no and he pushes you down. You can push back and tell him no. If he leaves, he leaves. He isn’t the one for you. That’s not respecting you

  • dont do it. make him please you instead. teach him

  • Suck it!

  • Tell him to spank u harder an make u practice a lot more so u can be his good little girl.
    God Bless

  • Tell him again

  • Push his head down between your legs.

  • All you can do is tell him how you feel about it and that you don't want it to continue. If he doesn't stop, then you need to think about getting a new boyfriend

    • Ya I get that

  • What happens if you say no or resist?

  • Just say for him you don't want to do it!!

  • Be firm and forceful in telling him no. If he persists, push him off and tell at him. Forcing someone into sexual activity is sexual assault.

  • Get a mouth fleshlight and us ot on him with no mercy. Lol

  • SPEAK UP! Got to tell him how you feel. I'm sure he wouldn't hesitate to tell you if it were reversed.

  • Jaw exercises so you get less tired

    • Lol maybe