Do not ask him, do not get into intimacy with him. Seeing his dick crosses the line. Avoid it at all costs. Why? Because when something will go wrong (and something will), you would get into a situation where your bond with your mother (who is the legit partner of your stepdad) will be deteriorated, altered, maybe not recoverable. Imagine if you get into a sexual context with him, then one day he and your mother argue very hard, and in the fury he tries to hurt her by unleashing the weapon and say how even her daughter is a slut, and will reveal all of that. As well as she could discover that by accident without any argument needed. And what if you will get jealous of your mother at some point instead? What would happen when the rest of the family will get to know about this? And even worse: what if he indulges in that and when things will get discovered he will be processed for pedophilia? (Sooner or later these things get discovered anyway, during the years).
Imagine losing him, your mother and the rest of the family, for indulging too much out of some random sexual curiosity. Just don't. It's a really terrible idea with a too high risk behind, keep your family bonds intact.
You are very young and you have really plenty of occasions ahead, in the next years, to see a penis and to interact with it. You will definitely get into such situations with classmates, friends, friends of friends, guys met at parties or events, guys met online, etc. And if you like older men, don't worry, they hit on young girls all the time to the point of giving you nausea. Trust that if you wait more, you will definitely get chances around, and a lot, which won't risk to create any problem inside your family.
Start by not initiating any topic about the male body anymore, for example, and if he does, dismiss it with empty replies, then leave.
Talk more with other guys, even online, to keep your mind busy with them. Watch porn videos, engage in sexting exchanging nudes with some guys (tip: never include your face in the picture).
And lastly, remember he is off-limits, he is your mother's "property". Stick that to your mind!
From seeing his dick, next steps could unlock quite easily, your curiosity will grow on other things. This is why it's important to not take this step.
I obviously know I’m never going to see it (on purpose that is), but the feeling just doesn’t go away. 😂
What other things are you referring to?
I will need to go anon for this one. hahaha Is dad married? If not, one can be with one's step dad. If married, no go. Move on. You admire him and are crushing.
Gag luvs me. x
I’ve looked through the comments on this one and I’m sorry no one has been helpful/ provided constructive comments.
Regardless whether he’s your dad or step-dad, I believe there to be a need for boundaries.
While common for teens your age to have obsessive sexual thoughts, it’s most important that you don’t act on them impulsively. There are some things that once done, cannot be reversed. I’ve done many stupid things when I was younger, and on hindside, fills me with regret.
If you’re religious, pray about it. If you’re not, distract yourself with something fun and exciting. You can consider positive or negative reinforcement - either treat yourself at the end of each day for not acting upon that desire, or flick a rubber band on your wrist each time you have those thoughts. From a psychological POV, they’ll modify your thoughts and behaviour in a very short time.
Hope this helps. Let me know if there’s anything else.
Talking is one thing but I would not take the next step. If you want to see penises just go to a porn site or to Chaturbate to see guys jerk off and have sex.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I grew up nudist and most of the time its just curiosity. I would just ask him. I would if asked.
Suppress it or decide to act on it. You need to make that choice first.
Wait Till your 18 then ask him.
Is there a reason you want to see his penis in particular?
I’m just really weird. Ever since I was little I’ve just been interested in the male body. I don’t know, I’m really weird! 😂😂😂🤷♀️
But why are you weird if you feel curious about the body? Shouldn’t you wanna learn
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Do you only just want to see it?
You are just going to have to ask him about it. Tell him you have been wondering about it and would rather see his than some guys at school...
Ask yourself, what are you hoping for from it? What could happen? Is your relationship still good afterwards? Or could it destroy that? But anyway, I'll be 18 first. Underage, he wouldn't show it to you anyway.
As you are under 18, this curiosity can arrive at mind specially when you are too close to someone and can talk about everything!!
Why you don't try to ask your friends instead of your stepdad?
You can talk to a friend/stranger and show you and tell you more..
Friend: if you won't be shy
Stranger: if you wanna be stranger for him too
And its normal to talk with your step dad But its wrong to show him your body or see his body
Just go though his phone almost everyone has at least one nude pic of themselves on their phones
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