What do I do if my boyfriend doesn't meet my sexual needs?
Weve talked to each other about our sexual preferences and I try to explain it to him, but I don't want to hurt his feelings.
What do I do?
You need to acknowledge that sexual compatibility is an important part of overall compatibility, and realize that, since you cannot change other people, it is your responsibility to FIND a person you have high compatibility with, not just one you have mutual attraction with.
It is obviously too late in this case; your only real options now are to either accept him the way he is and accept that he won't change, or break up with him.
Next time, sexual compatibility needs to be higher on your list of priorities for a potential partner.
He's probably really inexperienced, I assume. Tell him what you enjoy, what your looking for and practice with him and see if he can develop some sexual skills.
If he doesn't have the ability to get better at what satisfies you, time to find someone who will.
Yeah... He was a virgin when we started dating
You've a lot of 'training' to do, lol. We all have had to teach someone and someone also had to teach us unless you were a natural! If you're patient, you can teach him to be a very satisfying lover.
If you like him and want to stay with him, get yourself a friends with benefits.
if you 2 can't agree and meet other's needs, it is time to move on and someone who can...
You have to be tough on him. It might hurt his feelings but he will eventually get it right.
Simply move on to one who does meet all your requirements.
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You have to keep talking to him. Maybe if he takes care of you before he even enters you if that sounds like a possibility?
What are your preferences? How do they differ from his?
Then you have three options:
1. Break up.
2. Accept it.
3. Communicate with your boyfriend about your needs and his needs and try to find a middle way.
then you have the dump him baby it doesn't matter he's not being sexaully satisfying then there's nothing you can do
honesty is king, it might hurt but he can let it keep him down or build him up it's his choice, because in the end if your not honest it could create even bigger problems.
tuff one.
what is he not doing that he doesn't understand
Replace the faulty product?
Leave him, he deserves someone better.
Coach him up and help him improve
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