What do I do if my partner isn't interested in intercourse anymore?

For months now me and my partner haven't had intercourse as she just isn't interested anymore I've tried all sorts. Please help
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Superb Opinion

  • Then you need to decide whether the rest of the relationship is mutually satisfactory as it is. If you're not satisfied enough with the relationship without sex involved, then it's a good thing you had to face that decision before you get married. It's a lot less painful to move on now, than it would have been if you'd gotten married and then she removed sex from the relationship.

    Also, this is another good reason not to consider bringing a legal contract (marriage) into things in the first place. A relationship should always be mutually positive; you don't want to be in deep and have her do you like Vader did Lando - "I'm altering the deal. Pray I do not alter it further."

Most Helpful Guy

  • She's lost her sexual attraction to you. Something you did or do not do has made her become disconnected. I would first talk with her about it and if she that doesn't work you need to break up with her. My ex and I had this problem, she wasn't happy with our relationship and we'd have sex once every month or two. When we did have sex I'd literally split her pussy. Then it would take time to heal and so on and so on. She eventually told me she wasn't happy and I didn't make her feel special and I made her feel ugly and I told her I wasn't happy for my reasons. So, we broke up and moved on. It's tough when you love someone and spend years together but sometimes it's for the best.

Most Helpful Girls

  • She might need professional help, as in a doctor or psychologist.

    Consider couple's therapy. There's a breakdown somewhere.

  • Sounds like she's feeling mentally/emotionally disconnected from you in some way. Have you asked her if she's okay lately?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Have you tried talking to her? In a very calm, direct, matter of fact way about it. Sort of like at a business meeting where things don't get emotional but focus on the facts and solutions?

    • Yeah I have and its the same thing she just can't get in the mood unfortunately

    • It sounds like she may have a hormone imbalance. Do you think she's see an endocrinologist to get checked out? If that's the problem and it gets fixed, you'll need to get a grip. Might even have to spank her frequently and forcefully to behave. I've seen it work wonders.

  • Did u ask her why she isn't feeling it? Maybe sheneeds to see a doctor...

    • I asked her how I can help even suggesting seeing a doctor but to no avail

    • Maybe she is depressed? Does she seem to not want to do other things she used to enjoy?

  • Your wife?

    • Fiancé

    • First off you thank the Lord you found this out before you went too far. Dump her and find someone that actually likes sex and is sexually attracted to you

  • has she stopped liking other things she used yo like doing (nonsexual)?

  • Tell her sex is very important and if we aren't having it I don know if I samma continue this relationship as boyfriend girlfriend OR husband and wife.

    Maybe we should just be friends

  • Get a new partner

  • She is A) using sex as a weapon, and/or B) getting sex somewhere else.

    Do not marry her. End the relationship.

  • you put up with it or you move on

  • Live your life without sex it's not that big of a deal

  • Look elsewhere or just her

  • get a new one

  • yeah not much you can do but get used to it and my wife she never wants intercourse either